Friday, July 25, 2014
Manly yes, but I like it, too!
If you're old enough, you probably remember a commercial in which an Irishman talks about his favorite soap, to which his colleen says, "Manly yes, but I like it, too!" Well, that's how I feel about porn videos that feature straight men for the gay viewer. They're straight men doing what straight men do (i.e., screwing straight women), but it's aimed at gay men. I'm going to describe how these videos differ from most straight porn (that is, porn made by straight men for straight men) and what's in it for straight women like me.
The Men The men are mostly beautiful, if not gorgeous. They have cute asses, and their penises are above average in size (not a surprise in any kind of porn). They don't have the giant cocks seen in some genres, though.
This straight woman's response: What's not to like?
The Women The women range from good-looking to almost plain, by porn standards. Most of them seem to have small breasts (again, by porn standards). I assume that's less distracting for the gay viewer.
This straight woman's response: As a woman who doesn't look like a porn star and who has small breasts, I like to see women I can identify with.
Clothing The men's clothing is nothing special -- not like the formalwear or workmen's togs seen in porn aimed at women. The woman often peels the man's clothing off slowly, taking time to relish his shapely butt and his semi-erect penis straining to escape from his undershorts. The women often keep their tops or dresses on during sex -- again, possibly to minimize distractions for the gay viewers.
This straight woman's response: I've got no complaints if someone wants to linger over a male ass or a penis and give me a good look! Regarding bottomless sex (for men or women), the way I look at it is that she or he was in such a hurry to have sex that they didn't have time to get their top off. And that's kind of hot.
The Sex: Once the man gets his clothes off, the woman usually worships the male ass. There's more fellatio than cunnilingus in these videos, and the woman's orgasm is optional. Both of these things, sadly, are not unusual in male-produced porn. The camera caresses the man's body and gives less attention to the woman.
This straight woman's response: I guess I shouldn't be surprised by the focus of these videos. This is the very male world of porn made by men for men who are interested in men. Still, I'd like to see the woman enjoying herself, too.
The Cumshot and its aftermath The man always comes outside the woman's vagina, often onto his own torso. (After all, if she's got a top on, he doesn't want to stain her clothes, right?) Afterwards, one of two things usually happens: either she gently towels off his penis, groin, chest, and any other body parts on which cum has landed, or she licks or wipes up his cum and eats it.
This straight woman's response: I always find it more romantic when the man comes while inside the woman (even if he's wearing a condom). I don't need to see spunk flying around the room to know that the on-screen lovers had a good time. That said, when the woman towels off the man, that's very cute. And cum eating? It can be hot if you're into that sort of thing.
Monday, March 19, 2012
Amateur CFNM videos featuring male strippers
Friday, November 4, 2011
A Cuckold Video (maybe)
Caroline and Michael's caption says, "Making a video so she can show her husband how he made her cum." I don't know if the man and the woman in this video are cuckolding anybody -- there's no indication in the video itself -- but it's a hot scene anyway. (If it makes the video hotter for you to imagine that the couple made it for her husband to see, then go for it, I say.)
They start out fully clothed on a bed, kissing. Occasionally, the man strips off some of his clothes and hers. Eventually, he's naked and she's wearing her bra and panties. He slides off her panties and penetrates her. As they are screwing, he continues to look into her eyes and often kisses her. He slides a pillow under her butt and holds her legs up to thrust into her more deeply.
"Oh, Michael," she says, and he lies down and kisses her, then they rearrange themselves so she is sitting in his lap and screwing him. After he takes off her bra, she gets on top and screws him. "Michael," she says, "I'm going to come!"
They change positions again, and he screws her from behind. He gets up on one leg and pushes hard. Then it's back to missionary, and he inserts his penis without using his hands (nice!). He holds up one of her legs. "Fuck me hard, Mike, fuck me hard!" she says. "I'm going to come!" (Maybe he comes at this point, too.)
More hugging, kissing, and gentle screwing.
He gets up and goes down on her. He stops to kiss her and lube up a vibrator. She moans to the sensations that his mouth and vibrator make on her pussy. "Mike, I think I'm going to come," she says. "I don't want to come yet." That doesn't stop him from what he's doing. "Please, please, please, Mike, Oh!" She comes. He keeps licking. She comes again. He licks some more until she makes him stop.
She gives him a big hug. He moves to go down on her again, but she doesn't let him.
Very hot!
This is my kind of video: you can't tell when or if the man comes, but you can definitely tell that the woman does -- multiple times!
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
The Porn I Like, part 2: Plots
- Pegging videos
- Bisexual (MMF threesome) videos
If a pegging video has a plot, it's likely to be a dominant woman forcing an unwilling man to get fucked with her strap-on, insulting him all the while. (Here's a mild example: Strap Attack 11, featuring Charisma Cappelli) I prefer non-dominant pegging.
Bisexual plots
If a bisexual threesome video has a plot, it's likely to be one of two types:
- The woman tells her man she wants to have an MMF threesome. He's reluctant; maybe he says he's only received a blowjob from another guy. But before he can definitely say no, the other guy shows up and the threesome is on. (Example: Wanna F*ck My Wife, Gotta F*ck Me Too 4, scene 4: MILF Magdalene St. Michaels leads bisexual threesome )
- A dominant woman (again) forces her man to watch while she has sex with another man -- cuckolds him, in other words -- insulting him by telling him that the other guy is a better lover and has a larger penis. Then she'll force her man to play the "woman's role" by giving fellatio to the other man and receiving anal intercourse from him -- either way, he's the one getting penetrated. (A mild example, but a consensual one, which makes all the difference: Jennifer's husband comes out of the closet)
Earlier posts in this series:
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
The Porn I Like, part 1: What the Pundits Say
Some female readers might be thinking, "This doesn't describe me at all!" And, in fact, somewhere between a quarter and a third of the visitors to the major pornography sites are women. Our data suggest that these women probably have a higher sex drive than other women and that they are more socially aggressive and more comfortable taking risks.
There. That's more like it. And, it seems to me, I've got a lot of female company if "between a quarter and a third of the visitors to the major pornography sites are women."
Maybe we just need to make our own erotica, argues Porn made for women, by women in the Guardian. (Tip of the dildo to the Sex Secrets blog.)
"It is a prejudice to say that women don't like porn," says Erika Lust, another fem porn director. "Sex images make you hot, but pornography has been made by and for men. In mainstream porn everything is about male pleasure and women are objects. Oral sex for men can last forever, but when women's turn comes it lasts 10 seconds. Female orgasms are not an issue in most of the films. And women are shown mostly as prostitutes, which is sad."
[...]
Lust adds: "To get excited women want to see something that looks like us. We want to see independent women exploring their sexuality, who are not afraid, but are not sex heroines either. We want to see attractive men who share our lifestyles, our ideas."
[...]
[Verena Chiara Kuckenberger:] "For women to admit to experiencing pleasure in watching pornography means overcoming stereotypes about female sexuality. There are women who do not want to consume pornography, but at the same time there is a potential female audience for porn and I would say it is bigger than it has been assumed so far and it is increasing as our society overcomes gendered stereotypes in general."
(Another Guardian article says enough women are watching enough porn that female porn addiction is not uncommon.)
In future posts, I'll write about the kinds of porn I like to see.
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Porn made for and by women; Rye's rubdown
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Porn made for women, by women | Life and style | guardian.co.uk Posted: 25 Mar 2011 06:40 AM PDT H/T Sexsecrets blog |
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 06:38 AM PDT |
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Bisexual Guy F*cks His Boyfriend and Hot Brunette
Monday, February 7, 2011
Hot Bisexual Threesome
Another man walks down the beach and into their house. The first man invites him in. He's got gorgeous blue eyes and wears an earring. The woman sits on Muscles' face; she and Blue Eyes take turns sucking his cock. Blue Eyes gets into a 69 with the woman and sucks Muscles some more.
Blue Eyes screws the woman, she touches herself, and both share Muscles' cock.
The woman sits on Blue Eyes' face as Muscles gets ready to screw him. She shifts to holding his legs up, then touching herself, while cheering on the guys. Blue Eyes strokes himself to orgasm. Later, she sucks Blue Eyes and Muscles comes in her face.
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Strap Attack 11 (featuring Charisma Cappelli)
The scene opens with an unseen male Interviewer questioning Charisma outside her house. The dialog goes something like this (slightly edited):
Interviewer: You expect a lot from your man, huh?
Charisma: Oh, abso-fucking-lutely ... oh, you know, daily chores, laundry, dishes.
Interviewer: You don't do that shit?
Charisma: Fuck no! Why do you have a man for? You have to make him please you -- cook dinner, bathe me, wash me.
Interviewer: Why?
Charisma: Because he's my little bitch.
Interviewer: When are you nice to him?
Charisma: In bed.
Interviewer:You're a strong girl, huh?
Charisma: Yeah, I can kick his ass. If he doesn't do what I asked to get done, he gets punished.
Turns out her man (a big muscular bald guy) laundered the towels and cleaned the kitchen, but didn't make dinner. She orders him to make dinner, he refuses, and there's a little physical stuff (from both parties) I could have lived without.
"I know how you can make it up to me," she says, "by letting me fuck you for a change."
"Do I have a choice?"
"No, you don't or you're out."
After the cut, he's naked with an erection, while she's wearing a black and pink outfit with short skirt (CFNM, anyone?). They do 69, then she sits on his face and practically smothers him. When he objects, she says, "Don't stop!"
She remembers that she wants to fuck him and is soon wearing nothing but a corset, leather boots, and strap-on dildo. She has him suck it. She lies down and starts using a vibrator on herself. I don't know about you, but for me, this gave the dildo-sucking a completely different feel. It's as if his sucking is directly stimulating her real genitals. She comes multiple times, most times holding his head on her "cock" until she does so.
She rims and fingers his ass. She sucks and strokes his cock as she continues to finger his ass. "You like being my little bitch, huh?" (If this is femdom, many men would sign up in a minute!)
She slides her dildo in his ass and begins to screw him. She lies behind him and screws him some more, quite deeply too. Then she takes his ass doggy style.
She sucks his cock and then rides him reverse cowgirl. They screw so hard, the dildo falls out of the harness.
He talks about coming. "I'm going to make you fucking come," she says and pegs him until he does just that.
Find it wherever fine porn is sold, rented, and streamed.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Jennifer's husband comes out of the closet
At the beginning of Jennifer's Husband Comes Out of the Closet, Jennifer's husband -- a bald man who looks like Michael Stipe of R.E.M. -- is masturbating to a threesome video showing a black man screwing a white woman as her husband holds her. Jennifer comes home and catches her husband watching this video. She freaks out, but soon agrees to cuckold her husband as he hides in the closet, just not with a black guy. (A lot of cuckold videos seem to have the added element of the other man being African-American. There may be a racist subtext to this, but it's clearly a turn-on for some people.)
Jennifer brings home a man from work. She assures him that her husband is not home. As Jennifer starts to go down on her lover, he hears something and asks what it is, prompting Jennifer's husband to come out of the closet (get it?).
"What's he?" the lover asks.
"He's a cuckold," Jennifer answers.
"Oh really? That's cool. Why don't you come over here and help your wife suck this cock, then?"
As the husband goes down on his wife's lover, Jennifer pushes his head down, encouraging him to take it deep. Husband and wife take turns sucking their lover, until she climbs on top to ride him cowgirl style. Hubby stations himself down below to lick his balls.
After a break for a little more sucking, Jennifer turns around for reverse cowgirl. Her husband inserts their lover's dick into her pussy. As they screw, he frequently goes down on both of them and, at one point, rubs the lover's penis against her clitoris before reinserting it.
(I have to say, much as I enjoy MMF threesome videos -- the definition of which is that there is some man-on-man action involved -- I sometimes miss scenes in which the woman is the center of attention, as you find in MFM videos. Very often in MMF videos, for example, you see the two men screwing, and the woman will be stroking or sucking the bottom man's cock. Don't get me wrong; I love that! But what about the reverse? What if the woman and one of the men are screwing? Why can't the other man stroke or lick her pussy? I've rarely seen that happen, but this video is proof that a woman can get that extra attention in an MMF video.)
More sucking, again with Jennifer strongly encouraging her husband.
Jennifer's husband goes down on her as their lover kisses her breasts.
"You two are wonderful," she says. "Get that pussy wet for that cock."
The lover goes back to screwing Jennifer, this time spoons-style. Again, Hubby licks both their genitals. She holds his face, so he can watch them screw.
Jennifer has her husband suck their lover as she masturbates.
More screwing and licking. The lover ends by coming on Hubby's face, resting on Jennifer's belly.
After he leaves, Hubby rims Jennifer and then comes on her feet.
I love the way the wife is turned on by what her husband is doing -- as much or more than what she herself is doing.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Strap-On Addicts 4
Find it wherever fine porn is sold, rented, and streamed.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Video review: Throbbing Three Ways
- Good news: Lots of attention is paid to the woman.
- Bad news: No man-on-man action
Olivia and Hubby soon strip down. She sucks Hubby's cock and Giftboy licks her pussy. They move to the bed, where Olivia sucks Giftboy, and Hubby strokes her with both hands. Various other positions for cock sucking and pussy rubbing.
Olivia goes down on Giftboy, and Hubby screws her from behind. Hubby goes down on Olivia, who sucks Giftboy. Hubby screws Olivia; Giftboy dips his cock and balls into her mouth.
Olivia climbs on top of Giftboy and rides him, as Hubby watches. Hubby gets on the bed to get his cock sucked. Olivia turns around and rides Giftboy reverse cowgirl. She strokes herself as she does so. The guys soon come, too.
Find it wherever fine porn is sold, rented, and streamed.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Our porn, ourselves
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What Happened With Our Porn, Ourselves and Facebook | Our Porn, Ourselves Posted: 19 Aug 2010 12:10 AM PDT |
Cutting off your vagina to spite your Face(book) | Psychology Today Posted: 19 Aug 2010 12:08 AM PDT Facebook censors pages celebrating women's sexuality. |
Friday, August 6, 2010
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
A pro-porn manifesto
WE who declare that organizations such as Feminists Against Pornography do not speak for us.
WE who want the world to know that organizations such as Feminists Against Pornography do not represent feminists as a group.
WE who believe that every woman has the right and power to enjoy her sexuality as she decides.
WE who believe that to tell a woman how she may or may not enjoy her sexuality in any way is to deny that woman of her rights over her sexuality.
WE who state that any woman who attempts to control the way another woman enjoys, explores or expresses her sexuality is in fact creating a world that is harmful for all women.
WE who state that we are women, and we like pornography.
WE who state that as women, we are not harmed or threatened by the creation or viewing of pornography, and we wholly support the rights of any gender to view, create and enjoy pornography without judgment.
WE who want a world in which pornography is simply a sex toy enjoyed by all genders and sexual orientations, where women and men view porn within their own self-defined healthy sexuality, without being considered sick, twisted, wrong or mentally ill, and that men who enjoy pornography are no more likely to beat their wives, rape women or become paedophiles than anyone else in society.
WE hereby declare ourselves as adult women capable of making our own choices about our bodies and enjoyment of explicit visual stimulation for our sexual health and well-being.
WE hereby demand that our voices be heard.
To read more about the manifesto and how it came about, see Our Porn, Ourselves and the sex-positive, pro-porn campaign.
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Wanna F*ck My Wife Gotta F*ck Me Too 3
When the scene begins, an African-American man is sitting on a couch at a party and masturbating. Jordan Blue (very blonde hair and big breasts) and her white husband sit down next to him and discuss his large cock. Soon they proceed to suck it.
They arrange themselves into a chain, black man licking Jordan and white guy sucking black man. "Oh, baby, you look so sexy with that dick in your mouth," Jordan purrs to her husband. However, the black man seems less interested in giving head than in getting it, so the white couple go back to sucking him.
Another oral chain, but this time Jordan seems to lose interest and tells her husband she has a surprise for him. She wanders off, and white guy occupies himself with more cock sucking.
When Jordan comes back, she's wearing a strap-on, which she plunges into her husband's ass, while he continues to suck cock. (Strap-on sequences often seem like an afterthought in bi porn, but pegging afficionados will enjoy the length of this one.)
When she's done, the black man takes a turn screwing the husband, who, in turn, goes down on Jordan. At times, apparently the sensations in his ass are so intense that he leaves off his husbandly duties and Jordan strokes herself. The men change positions, and Jordan sits on husband's face, so he won't be so forgetful. Remember pussy?
Their partner clearly does, so he soon pulls out of husband and slides into Jordan. They do it in the missionary position, and all the while Jordan strokes herself. Next is reverse cowgirl, but Jordan has trouble moving and stroking herself at the same time. On to rear entry, in which Jordan can fan her flames into an inferno. Her body is virtually twitching after her last orgasm. This is what a sexy woman does, boys. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you; it just means that she wants to enjoy herself to the fullest.
Were you wondering what husband was doing all this time? Me neither, but he's masturbating at the other end of the couch. Everybody comes happily ever after.
Thursday, March 18, 2010
The Big Switch 3: Bachelor Party
Bride-to-be Tracy Winn is sitting at home getting more and more jealous of her fiance who she imagines at his bachelor party with "strippers and hookers and his scumbucket friends who will fuck anything that moves." (She's right, of course.) As she angrily flips through a magazine, she runs across an ad for male entertainers. She calls and orders a muscular long-haired guy. She changes into a body stocking and awaits her man.
Steve Ryder (a.k.a. Danny Celaya) struts in, and he is DROP. DEAD. GORGEOUS. He asks if she wants "the basic or the extra." Tracy chooses "the extra," naturally. He puts his tape recorder on the bed and starts dancing around and stripping down to a thong. Tracy is alternately embarrassed and turned on. As he starts to pull his penis out of his thong, Steve tells Tracy, "This is the extra." She takes hold of it, kisses him, and soon begins going down on him. And there's plenty of "extra" to go down on!
After a bit of ice play, Tracy climbs on top and Steve fingers her crotch. They turn over, and Steve goes down on her. She really seems to come at this point.
They change places once again, and Tracy rides Steve's "extra." When Steve rolls her over and gets on top, we get a good look at his muscular ass plunging against her body. Tracy has an extra good time here as well.
Two advisories: Tracy never takes off her body stocking, so you don't get a good look at her breasts. This may be a problem for some people. However, you do get a good look at her full, natural pubic hair. This may be a problem for some people; not for me, however.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Bisexual Threesome
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Posted: 15 Mar 2010 09:44 PM PDT This video has some moves I don't believe I've seen before. |
Saturday, March 6, 2010
American Vice
My only complaint is that there is a limited number of videos featuring my favorite vices: strap-on and bisexual scenes (47 and 34 DVDs, respectively, as of this writing). I'm hoping they'll add more.
Tip: If you do one search, and then want to do a new and different search, remember to click on the "Clear All" button.
Hat tip: Violet Blue
Edited to add: Abby's Adult Video on Demand has similar -- or better -- search features and possibly a wider selection of videos, but it's harder to get to the clips.