Sunday, January 30, 2011

Masturbation Instruction

I've discovered a new genre of video (new to me, anyway). It's called masturbation instruction (substitute the slang term of your choice). I can't imagine many men on the Internet need instructions in how to masturbate, but that's not really what these are about anyway. They're more like masturbation commands.

I've only seen a few of these, so I'm not sure how much I can generalize, but I'll try. Basically, a woman, fully or mostly clothed, comes onscreen and tells the (male) viewer how he should be masturbating -- how fast, what strokes, and most importantly, when he is allowed to (and must) come for her. I guess they're a kind of femdom* and also a species of the subgenre CFNM, since the woman may be clothed, but the man watching her: not so much.

Tip of, er, something to Married Sub, who alerted me to these videos. See his favorite masturbation instruction video.

(*) When I go looking for pegging material, I often come across femdom stuff, since people often associate the two, even though pegging doesn't have to include female dominance. But, then, some people like it and that's cool, too.

Update: Married Sub's comment below and recent post reminded me of yet another related genre: orgasm denial.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Prostate massage and handjob


Prostate massage and handjob

Posted: 28 Jan 2011 05:00 PM PST

Video: First time anal play for him!

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Sucking the dildo

I have to say most dildo-sucking sequences in strap-on videos leave me feeling meh. I don't get the attraction. (I don't make The Boyfriend do it during our strap-on sessions in RL either.) It can't be a physical pleasure. For the woman, the dildo is not part of her body, so she's not feeling anything. (Of course, there are videos of women with penises if you're into that sort of thing.) For the man, he's just getting a mouthful of whatever material they use to make the dildo.

I think I understand it, though. It's a psychological thing -- an act of female dominance (femdom) -- to "force" the man to suck her "cock." The implications of this trouble me. It implies that the beautiful act of fellatio -- an act regularly performed by straight women and gay men on their lovers -- is somehow demeaning, or at least beneath the dignity of a straight man. That being said, if you like to incorporate roleplaying into your strap-on activities, so the woman pretends to force the man to suck her dildo and the man pretends to feel demeaned by it all, yet all concerned are actually turned on by the proceedings, I have no problem with that.

For some other views, see the discussion How many into sucking the dildo? in the group Pegging is for Everyone.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Promises, promises

I love the pictures NewRyder posts everyday on his Strapon Log, but today's picture really takes the cake. It's titled "Promises, promises, promises." Make no mistake, it's plenty NSFW, but with a hint of even more, as its title suggests. Just go look at it.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Jennifer's husband comes out of the closet

I'm not usually into the whole cuckold-bisexual scene. It's often portrayed as something the woman forces on her man and so becomes another form of femdom. On the other hand, if all parties are into it, then it can be a hot way to introduce an MMF threesome.

At the beginning of Jennifer's Husband Comes Out of the Closet, Jennifer's husband -- a bald man who looks like Michael Stipe of R.E.M. -- is masturbating to a threesome video showing a black man screwing a white woman as her husband holds her. Jennifer comes home and catches her husband watching this video. She freaks out, but soon agrees to cuckold her husband as he hides in the closet, just not with a black guy. (A lot of cuckold videos seem to have the added element of the other man being African-American. There may be a racist subtext to this, but it's clearly a turn-on for some people.)

Jennifer brings home a man from work. She assures him that her husband is not home. As Jennifer starts to go down on her lover, he hears something and asks what it is, prompting Jennifer's husband to come out of the closet (get it?).

"What's he?" the lover asks.

"He's a cuckold," Jennifer answers.

"Oh really? That's cool. Why don't you come over here and help your wife suck this cock, then?"

As the husband goes down on his wife's lover, Jennifer pushes his head down, encouraging him to take it deep. Husband and wife take turns sucking their lover, until she climbs on top to ride him cowgirl style. Hubby stations himself down below to lick his balls.

After a break for a little more sucking, Jennifer turns around for reverse cowgirl. Her husband inserts their lover's dick into her pussy. As they screw, he frequently goes down on both of them and, at one point, rubs the lover's penis against her clitoris before reinserting it.

(I have to say, much as I enjoy MMF threesome videos -- the definition of which is that there is some man-on-man action involved -- I sometimes miss scenes in which the woman is the center of attention, as you find in MFM videos. Very often in MMF videos, for example, you see the two men screwing, and the woman will be stroking or sucking the bottom man's cock. Don't get me wrong; I love that! But what about the reverse? What if the woman and one of the men are screwing? Why can't the other man stroke or lick her pussy? I've rarely seen that happen, but this video is proof that a woman can get that extra attention in an MMF video.)

More sucking, again with Jennifer strongly encouraging her husband.

Jennifer's husband goes down on her as their lover kisses her breasts.

"You two are wonderful," she says. "Get that pussy wet for that cock."

The lover goes back to screwing Jennifer, this time spoons-style. Again, Hubby licks both their genitals. She holds his face, so he can watch them screw.

Jennifer has her husband suck their lover as she masturbates.

More screwing and licking. The lover ends by coming on Hubby's face, resting on Jennifer's belly.

After he leaves, Hubby rims Jennifer and then comes on her feet.

I love the way the wife is turned on by what her husband is doing -- as much or more than what she herself is doing.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Goldie strapon


Goldie strapon

Posted: 08 Jan 2011 08:10 PM PST

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Photo galleries over at Sex Secrets blog

Svetlana at Sex Secrets has some new photo galleries:

  • Boobiesexual's Delight
  • Eye Candy (for those who like nude men)
  • Going Down (women being on the receiving end)
  • Mystery Woman
  • Taken (again with women being on the receiving end)