Thursday, May 28, 2009

Same-sex Marriage in California

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'Bittersweet' for many wedded couples

Posted: 27 May 2009 09:21 PM PDT

At least some gay couples got to marry and stay married

Equality California

Posted: 27 May 2009 09:18 PM PDT

Fighting for same-sex marriage in California.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

10 Things you didn't know about orgasm


Mary Roach’s TED Talk: 10 Things You Didn’t Know About Orgasm via Violet Blue

Posted: 20 May 2009 09:01 PM PDT

Masturbation in utero, orgasms from tooth brushing, dead people having orgasms (in theory), and more. Video, but no nudity.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Where else to find me on the Interwebs


Vickie P. on Worldcat

Posted: 19 May 2009 12:26 PM PDT

My reading list(s)

Bisexual pornography - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Posted: 19 May 2009 12:25 PM PDT

I'm proud to say that I started this article.

Vickie P.'s blog on MySpace

Posted: 19 May 2009 12:22 PM PDT

I don't post here as much as I used to. I'm more likely to post to

Vickie P. - FriendFeed

Posted: 19 May 2009 12:21 PM PDT

Follow me and most of my writing here.

Monday, May 18, 2009

Pegging links


Bend Over Baby « Men are Easy, I need a Nap

Posted: 17 May 2009 08:17 AM PDT

"I was suddenly the heroine in a pegging porno, and I felt great."

Peg o' my Heart: Sex with Timaree

Posted: 17 May 2009 07:59 AM PDT

"What do you reckon is the best way for a fella to find a lady that is into pegging?"

Sunday, May 17, 2009

MILF porn II

Just when I thought I was so clever to link Mother's Day and MILF porn, I find out that the oh-so-fashionable women's magazine, Marie Claire, has descended into the gutter with me.

Its May issue features the article, "Are We Ready for MILF Porn?" It describes how MILF porn is the second-most-popular genre and "It's a Mommy Thing 4" (the film I reviewed) is the most popular title in the genre. It also tells us that 41-year-old Demi Delia (and others of her cohort) is the object of adoration for much younger men.

Do you take it in the ass?

The Wet Spots ask that musical question. Ask your lover today. If you're a straight man, ask your woman if she does it. If you're a straight woman, ask your man if he does it. If you're a lesbian woman, ask your woman if she does it. If you're a gay man, well, you probably already know the answer to that question.

Nina Hartley’s Guide to Threesomes: Two Guys and a Girl

Two scenes (plus some advice): In each of them, two men make love to a woman (Nina herself in the first scene). The woman takes the guys in pretty much every way imaginable. It’s really hot, especially if you’re a woman who has this fantasy.

What doesn’t happen: The guys do not touch each other. This may be a relief to some, a disappointment to others.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Christian nymphos consider pegging

A group (couple?) of Christian nymphos consider pegging:

Again, here we are with something that is not specifically mentioned in scriptures. We are left to try and decide for ourselves if this practice falls within the category of sin.

Turns out, it's OK! Onward, Christian nymphos!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

A Mother's Day review of "It's a Mommy Thing 4"

Some you may not be familiar with the MILF concept. It stands for "Mother I'd like to f*ck." If you see the term in the title of a porn movie, it means that someone (often a younger man) is having sex with someone who is a mother or at least old enough to be one. Being a woman of a certain age, I can certainly appreciate movies that treat women like me as sexy, desirable people.

I recently ran across the movie, "It's a Mommy Thing 4." In some of the scenes, the woman is the stepmother or adopted mother of the man (or woman) she's having sex with. In one, the woman seems to be a mother-for-hire, and in another, the younger woman calls the older one "Mommy." Eww! I am not keen on incest, even if it is simulated by actors who are not actually blood relatives.

If you're like me, you'll take advantage of the miracle of DVD technology and skip to scene three. In this one, Francesca Le plays a stepmother with her stepson. Francesca knows her stepson has been having fantasies about her naked body, so to cure him of that, she takes him upstairs and gives him a view of her naked body, liberally stimulated by a vibrator. (Ohhh-kayyy, that should stop those fantasies.) I try to ignore that plot point and concentrate on the fact that an older woman — Le was 37 when this film was made — is with a younger man.

In addition to the age difference, there's something else that makes this scene hot for me. Francesca gets screwed in the missionary position, woman-on-top, reverse cowgirl, doggie style, on her side supported by one knee and her head (what is that position called?). And in every position, she touches herself (sometimes with a vibrator) — and often orgasms (at least they looked and sounded real to me).

In real life, many women do this. Some women even need to do it. That's because most women don't come from intercourse alone — no matter how great the cock might be. I've rarely seen this in a porn movie, however. Maybe (male) directors think (male) viewers will be offended to learn that women need some clitoral stimulus to come during intercourse. I think they're wrong. I think hip viewers of either gender will get turned on by a woman having joyous orgasms, however they come about. It's nice to see a movie made by people who understand that.

If your man has any fetishes special interests, he should find something to like in this movie:

  • Older women, younger men (MILF)

  • (Near) incest

  • Female masturbation

  • Lesbian scenes

  • MFF threesomes

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Women and their toys


Eric's Butterfly Erotica | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

Posted: 08 May 2009 12:24 PM PDT

Story featuring a woman, a man, a vibrator. Very hot!

amy reid - strap attack - video

Posted: 08 May 2009 08:43 AM PDT

More dialog than you might expect. He: "The things I really like to do, I don't know if I should tell you." She: "I'm very open-minded." He: "I like things in my *ss."

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Cosmopolitan looks at men's bodies from both sides now

There I was in the supermarket minding my own business when this magazine headline caught my eye:

His G Spot. Yup, he's got one too -- and it's aching to be touched. Go get it, girl!

It was the cover of the June [2008] issue of Cosmopolitan. Could it be? Could a mainstream women's mag be talking about anal loving? I picked up the magazine and read this article.

Women aren't the only ones with a powerful G-spot. A guy's prostate -- the walnut-size gland under his bladder -- is the ultimate magic button to push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through oral sex or intercourse, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus. "His prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body," says [Ian] Kerner, "so by applying pressure here you're indirectly rubbing his G-spot." When you sense he's close to orgasm, rhythmically press the area (one pulse every second) until he climaxes.

So far, so good, but how about getting to his "G-spot" through a more direct route?

A more intense form of stimulation is to place a finger in his anus. First, gauge his interest by circling his back door softly with your finger while in a missionary of side-by-side position. "If he doesn't tell you to stop and his erection doesn't flag, he's likely enjoying it," says Kerner.

Now you're getting there, Cosmo. "If his erection doesn't flag"? What if it twitches and swells and grows? LOL.

Next, ask him whether you can insert your finger. If he gives you the go ahead, dab on lube (make sure your nails are short), gently put your finger 2 inches inside his backstage entrance, and curl it toward the front of his body until you feel a round bulb of tissue -- that's his prostate. Lightly tap or swirl your fingertip around it. "Then gradually experiment with going faster and firmer," instructs Kerner. Check to make sure he likes what you're doing.

I don't think that will be a problem.

The article goes on to talk about a man's "C-spot," "8-spot," "W-spot," "F-spot," "X-spot," and "R-spot," and "O-spot."

Ladies, happy hunting!

Men, now you have some ammunition to get your S.O. to touch you *there*. You know: "I'll touch your G-spot if you'll touch mine." LOL.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Intercourse in variety of styles


Living Somewhat Dangerously: In Which The New Year Suddenly Doesn't Look So Bad

Posted: 02 May 2009 08:57 PM PDT

Great account of pegging an (ex-)boyfriend

Orgasm Positions - The Best Sex Positions for Having an Orgasm -

Posted: 02 May 2009 08:30 PM PDT

Seven positions that make orgasm more likely for the woman. Via Svetlana of Sex Secrets

Friday, May 1, 2009

Penises, real and mechanical


RedTube - Girl has wonderful Orgasm on Sybian

Posted: 30 Apr 2009 10:44 PM PDT

Secrets of the Phallus: Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That?: Scientific American

Posted: 30 Apr 2009 09:02 PM PDT

"The researchers selected several sets of prosthetic genitals from erotic novelty stores, including a realistic latex vagina sold as a masturbation pal for lonely straight men and tied off at one end to prevent leakage, and three artificial phalluses."