Saturday, April 25, 2009

About Vickie P. and Her Interests

Hey hi, all,

I am a straight woman with somewhat unusual interests — pegging and bisexual erotica.

Pegging is the practice of a woman using a strap-on dildo on a man’s ass. I enjoy doing this and experiencing it through erotic videos and books.

Bisexual erotica portrays — in words or pictures — heterosexual and homosexual acts. Since straight men have historically set the standards, homosexual acts they find arousing (i.e., lesbian scenes) are acceptable in straight porn. So, in practice, bisexual erotica mixes straight sex with gay male sex. The easiest way to do that is with a two-man, one-woman threesome. There are MMF threesomes (with homoerotic, man-on-man action) and MFM threesomes (no man-on-man action, but lots of attention paid to the woman). I’m interested in both kinds, although the second one isn’t really bisexual.

[Added May 5, 2009:]

I haven't had a whole lot of luck with the so-called "Web 2.0."


  • On another blogging platform, after I used a four-letter word, my posts were banned from the tag pages, which had provided me with 90% of my visitors


  • On a consumer recommendation site, I was banned for using a four-letter word for the male sex organ in a review of Playgirl.


  • On a popular social networking site, my links are sometimes censored if the operators of the site think they go somewhere nasty.



I'm hoping Blogspot will let Vickie be Vickie.

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In my experience, when a woman writes openly about sex on the Internet, she gets some, um, interesting propositions from men. Guys, I have all the lovers I need, so please don’t apply for the position.

39 comments:

  1. Hi VickieP,
    It is great to find someone like yourself on the web. My wife and I are new to the web/social bookmarking/blogging thing but are big fans of strapon sex. Please keep up the great comments and insights!

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  2. Thanks, Whisper. I wish you and your wife many years of happy pegging together.

    I hope you'll visit here frequently and post comments whenever something strikes your fancy.

    You can "follow" my blog by clicking the "follow blog" link at the top of the page. You can also get an RSS feed and get automatic updates whenever I have a new post.

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  3. Hi! Mature, bi Gent in Columbus, Ohio here.
    I am new to Blogger and came across your Blog. I find it interesting and erotic. I enjoy bisexual activity with other men, mostly blow and go, particularly those circumstances where the wife, GF, or SO enjoys watching me go down on her male mate, I also really enjoy having a lady use a strap-on on me, and ofcourse have enjoyed the real thing as well. I hope to follow your Blog, thank you for expressing your interests!

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  4. Darling, I should have contacted you LONG ago. You and your blog consistently provide me with readers. I very much appreciate it. Very much. Contact me if you'd like; I'd love to exchange some ideas.

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  5. Vicki P..I want to marry you...lol, I'm probably waaaay to old though. Love where you are coming from and look forward to reading your blog. Wished the world had more women like you.

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  6. Thank you, sweetie, but I think my BF would have a problem with you marrying me.

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  7. all it anyting the actual act of h use of a dildo or strap by a woman on a man , married or boy friend, i an extr-ordinaryinitiate act.
    Married and introduced some 3-4 years ago have made pegging a pat of our sex life...most enjoyed and more when my fem, wife of som years will initiate such pleasure.
    Havealso enjoyed it with another couple thats was extra-ordinary but would not suggest it to any couple who did not know and accept the probablity of som mutual same sex fondling and touching..erotic otherwise

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  8. Just found your blog via - now let me get this right - a comment from a post, from another comment from another post, from a link in a post about how that 'other blogging platform' quietly censors its bloggers who post mature content. (WE WILL NOT BE SILENCED! :-) )
    Phew! I hope that made some sense?
    I really am enjoying this site and will keep coming back.

    XXX

    NH.

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  9. Thanks, Anonymous NH, glad you found me here on freewheeling Blogspot.

    Yours,
    Vickie

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  10. Hi Vicki
    Thanks for the note on the Fiona Files.
    Hey- I suck at proof reading. What spelling and errors?
    Funny- I am more embarrassed about spelling errors than I am about writing a rape fantasy.
    Do me a huge favor and point out my errors.
    newryder-gmail.com
    Let's talk.
    -ryder

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  11. Vicki,

    I own the SocialPegging.com website and I just wanted to tell you how thankful I am that you've mentioned it on your blog...


    Thanks again!

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  12. Glad I could help, Allison. I haven't explored the site too much, but I plan to.

    For those looking for the post, it's at http://heyhiall.blogspot.com/2010/07/social-pegging.html

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  13. LOVE THE SITE!!! I'm a straight male that loves anal play, but my wife is not so interested. It is great to see others have the same interest. I'm always looking for suggestions for new toys or ideas to fulfill my need!

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  14. I am in Dublin and seeking a lady with this kind of interest

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  15. Wish I could help, Rory. I would love to be in Dublin and pegging. Alas, I am not in Dublin and The Boyfriend doesn't want me pegging anyone but him.

    I suggest you try the Tribe.net group "Pegging is for Everyone" or SocialPegging.com.

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  16. Hi Beautiful. Thank you for leaving me a comment. Of course I'll continue to read your blog. I was planning to do that whether you read mine or not. We share some interests and I've enjoyed what I've read so far. I'll try to leave comments so you'll know I've been here.

    Thank you again.

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  17. Thanks for your comments, Julia. I can tell you've been reading the blog. I've been off-blog during the High Holy Days, but I'm back now.

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  18. Hi Vicky, Thanks for your blog. It's not usual to find a beautiful woman who loves pegging and writes about it. I've never been pegged. I bought a didldo and a strapon, but my wife doesn't like tha idea of pegging me. She just fingers me or uses the dildo, but no strapon. Would you help me to convince her?

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  19. Hey, kunsidney,

    I don't think I could say it any better than Ruby Ryder did in this essay. Good luck.

    Yours,
    Vickie P.

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  20. Hi Vicky,

    Have been reading a number of blogs and I guess I’m just looking to leave a comment to someone of a similar mindset not for any reason, just to say it.
    I would only let my partner peg me and they aren’t interested it so it will remain a fantasy. Which is OK as recently it has become an obsession, which isn’t healthy and when do fantasies ever live up to reality?
    So what’s my fantasy?
    To be giving oral to my partner while she wears just high heels and is sitting on the sofa. Then she leads me upstairs to the bedroom and strips off all my clothes except my boxer shorts. Then she makes me get on my kneel in front of her while she turns around and gets a 6″ strap on with a vibrating part for her. She makes me put it on her and do up the straps. Then she makes me lube it up before standing me up and leading me to the bed. She pushes me onto the bed so I’m in doggy position and she stands behind me. Then she teases me by rubbing the dildo around my opening before grabbing me hips and easing it inside me (let it in easy baby!). She starts slow and shallow building up to fast and hard, as fast and hard as I’ve taken her in this position. I moan as takes me. She reaches round and brings me to orgasm at the same time she does. We both scream in ectasy as she thrusts me to climax.
    Hope this doesn’t offend anyone, I just wanted to share.
    :0)

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  21. I don't think it's going to offend anyone around these parts. Thanks for sharing your ideas, hope you get to do them someday.

    Yours,
    Vickie P.

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  22. Great blog vickie! I would love to contribute to the blog in some way as i find the idea of pegging to be fascinating. let me know how I can do so.

    Awe

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  23. Glad you like it, sweetie. I'm not doing a collaborative blog here, but I would love to get comments from you (and other readers) any time you feel the urge to write something.

    Yours,
    Vickie

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  24. can my dream be true by woman who want to peg and take me hard all night in her bed.

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  25. Anon., I hope your dream does come true and you meet that woman who will peg you as you deserve to be pegged.

    I am that woman for a man who likes to be peg, but unfortunately for you, he doesn't want to share.

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  26. My wife had an interest in pegging and took a chance to indulge her self on a vacation last summer. It changed me and more importantly how she saw me. I revealed my cross-dressing secret and she just simply took charge of our life. Cuckolding had to be implemented she said because sometimes SHE wanted to be taken and I was no longer viewed by her as believable in the manly sense. How ever we became closer than before and Im grateful for her strength and leadership in our FLR union.

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    1. Thank you for sharing, Anonymous. FLR is female-led relationship, I understand. I'm glad this works for you and your wife and hope you'll tell me more sometime.

      Yours,
      Vickie P.

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  27. Hi vickie. Great blog! Bring pegged is something I love to fantasize about, but for some reason I really can't imagine suggesting this to my wife, I dont know why. Pegging stories are my favorite er, aid for fantasy. Sorry if that is TMI. Great blog, keep it up!

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    1. We specialize in TMI around here! LOL. Please suggest it to your wife. The worst that can happen is she'll say no and you're no worse off. The best that can happen -- well, that could be fabulous!

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  28. I was a faithful husband for twenty yrs, prior to my divorce 3yrs ago. Over these last 12mo though, I have found myself with more sexual desire and stamina now than I have had all my life put together. This new found sexual drive has carried me into all sorts of fun new experiences. Light BDSM, Bi curiosity and Pegging. I just cant seem to get my fill on new experiences. My problem is finding like minded females but I stopped by to say that women like you... with blogs like this. Is an inspiration! Thank you and keep on expressing yourself, I am sure you are encouraging so many others like me.

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    1. I hope you do find that special woman to whom you can give your strong heart! (And she can give you a good pegging!) If I have inspired women to want to do these things, I'm pleased -- for you and for them.

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  29. I really wish I could meet a woman with an open minded attitude like yours, due to the ignorance around me, I feel too scared even at the age of 43 to tell people I'm bisexual, this is because so many misunderstand what this might mean and always assume bi men are gay in denial. If a man who has only ever had gay encounters all of his life suddenly tried sex with a woman, nobody will say he'e straight now and was just confused, they will say he's still gay, but if a man who's only ever had sex with woman tries a man one day, he;s now gay for life, double standard society! Anyway, I'm digressing here. I'd love to meet a woman here in the midlands UK who likes bi porn and all the things Vickie is open to, then I could share my ultimate fantasies with the woman I love without fear of guilt or shame. Write to me girls, let's chat. blondechris@hotmail.co.uk

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    1. Chris,

      I wish you luck. Maybe there are some online forums in the UK where you could meet a bi-loving bird (do they still say "bird" over there?). The NY Times published some sloppy research saying that bisexual men didn't exist, but then took it back. I wrote about it here: http://heyhiall.blogspot.com/2011/08/good-news-for-bisexual-men-you-exist.html

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  30. No we don't refer to girls as birds any more. It's a bit dated, not PC and seen as a bit derogatory. I've heard it used in the North West of England though, and I think it came into popular usage after the Beatles used it. The origin of the term is a bit unsure. A female friend of mine told me that men call girls birds because of the worms they pick up! And some joker has posted on Yahoo that it's because they never shut up and s**t on you! Love the blog by the way.

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  31. Terrific blog! I'm seeking to understand what women get out of pegging and why some women enjoy it and the topic of gender role exchange in general. You offer much rich material to internalize and hopefully employ! :-) Thanks for sharing!

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  32. AmusingStrapon at YahooJune 15, 2015 at 4:43 AM

    Enjoy reading your blog and especially the topic of pegging. My original exposure to the idea was when I did some modeling and a photo shoot included girl-girl strap-on fun. It is not easy to find women into this. I have traveled all across the US in my search and am now out west again traveling with toys and lots of funny stories but ....

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  33. Vickie. You are amazin and I love your blog.

    You added me on Videos and I can't stop thinking about how lucky your husband is. He would be even luckier if you made me cum over wearing nothing but a thong and you forced me to pull his cock out of his underwear and pushed it into my str8 throat. I hope to continue to chat with you. I would love to find a partner like you, my girlfriend isn't as confident and dominating as you. Thanks ;)

    thongboy1989@yahoo.com
    thong_boy1989 skype

    Would love to chat

    PS. I've never been with a guy but am young, love thongs and interested in what cock taaste likes, especially if force fed by a beautiful woman.

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