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Monday, January 16, 2012
Ruined Orgasms III
A few more discoveries on the subject of ruined orgasms. (I think this topic has risen to the level of an abiding interest, if not an obsession.)
Ruinit's videos
Someone called Ruinit has posted a series of videos to Xtube. The videos star Mr. Ruinit's penis, which is long and slightly curved and sports a cock ring. Co-starring is "Girl from work's" hands, which are nicely manicured and sometimes wearing jewelery. Spoiler warning: I give away the endings and whether they are happy or not.
Title and link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Hand: Right hand, brown nail polish
Length: 16:30
Comments: I've written about this one before. It's a long video that ends with a ruined orgasm, but he must have wanted that, because he warns her when he's getting close to coming.
Title and link: Ruined orgasm again girl from work
Hand: Left hand, bracelet (maybe not the same "girl from work" as the first one?)
Length: 12:55
Comments: Another long video, but this one ends with no orgasm/ejaculation. It's either orgasm denial, or it's just the first part of the scene, the ending of which comes in the next video.
Title and link: Ruined orgasm #2
Hand: Left hand, bracelet
Length: 5:31
Comments: Could be a continuation of the previous video; the hand and the background look the same. Ends with a ruined orgasm.
Another Video
This video, Tease Denial Edging, was recommended in a comment by the Married Sub (tip of the dildo!). It's a lovely 13-minute handjob, ending in a ruined orgasm. You can find other videos of this same talented woman if you apply yourself. I don't want to post too much information for fear these videos will go away.
Milovana
Milovana's slogan is "For the explorer at heart," so you might think it was about all kinds of sexual kinks. However, it's mainly devoted to femdom, specifically tease and denial.
There's a forum, in which ruined orgasms are a major topic of discussion:
Most of the participants seem to be men, but there are a few femdoms who add their opinions.
What really sets this site apart, however, are the web teases. Most of them are aimed at men and feature a woman telling the user what to do as he follows along (i.e., masturbates). Almost all have an element of femdom, and some lead to ruined orgasms. (Some let you make choices along the way the lead to different outcomes -- so to speak.) It's not easy to find the ones involving ruined orgasms. A few are tagged with ruined orgasm. You can also find them by browsing the forums where people talk about them. Here's a couple I like:
Why would a woman want to watch these? Simple: to get tips about how to dominate your man (if both of you are into this).
Note: Most of the videos are in the Flash format, which could be a problem for some mobile devices. There are also conventional HTML web teases, too.
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery
Ruined Orgasms II
Ruinit's videos
Someone called Ruinit has posted a series of videos to Xtube. The videos star Mr. Ruinit's penis, which is long and slightly curved and sports a cock ring. Co-starring is "Girl from work's" hands, which are nicely manicured and sometimes wearing jewelery. Spoiler warning: I give away the endings and whether they are happy or not.
Title and link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Hand: Right hand, brown nail polish
Length: 16:30
Comments: I've written about this one before. It's a long video that ends with a ruined orgasm, but he must have wanted that, because he warns her when he's getting close to coming.
Title and link: Ruined orgasm again girl from work
Hand: Left hand, bracelet (maybe not the same "girl from work" as the first one?)
Length: 12:55
Comments: Another long video, but this one ends with no orgasm/ejaculation. It's either orgasm denial, or it's just the first part of the scene, the ending of which comes in the next video.
Title and link: Ruined orgasm #2
Hand: Left hand, bracelet
Length: 5:31
Comments: Could be a continuation of the previous video; the hand and the background look the same. Ends with a ruined orgasm.
Another Video
This video, Tease Denial Edging, was recommended in a comment by the Married Sub (tip of the dildo!). It's a lovely 13-minute handjob, ending in a ruined orgasm. You can find other videos of this same talented woman if you apply yourself. I don't want to post too much information for fear these videos will go away.
Milovana
Milovana's slogan is "For the explorer at heart," so you might think it was about all kinds of sexual kinks. However, it's mainly devoted to femdom, specifically tease and denial.
There's a forum, in which ruined orgasms are a major topic of discussion:
- How to have a ruined orgasm and stay hard
- How to have a ruined orgasm but not a full release
- How to have a ruined orgasm during vaginal intercourse
- What constitutes a ruined orgasm (especially if your woman won't allow you to have a "real" orgasm)
- Why ruined orgasms are just so pleasurable (and what can be done to prevent that)
Most of the participants seem to be men, but there are a few femdoms who add their opinions.
What really sets this site apart, however, are the web teases. Most of them are aimed at men and feature a woman telling the user what to do as he follows along (i.e., masturbates). Almost all have an element of femdom, and some lead to ruined orgasms. (Some let you make choices along the way the lead to different outcomes -- so to speak.) It's not easy to find the ones involving ruined orgasms. A few are tagged with ruined orgasm. You can also find them by browsing the forums where people talk about them. Here's a couple I like:
Why would a woman want to watch these? Simple: to get tips about how to dominate your man (if both of you are into this).
Note: Most of the videos are in the Flash format, which could be a problem for some mobile devices. There are also conventional HTML web teases, too.
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery
Ruined Orgasms II
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Ruined Orgasms II
Even if The Boyfriend has lost interest in ruined orgasms, it doesn't mean I have. I keep searching for good videos on this subject, but most of them are too femdommy for me (humiliation, men in leather masks, and actual torture of men's genitalia; word to the wise: avoid anything that says CBT). However, here's three I like:
Title and Link: Wife gives slow handjob with ruined orgasm
Participants: Wife and husband
Faces: No
Special Features: She lets go of his penis multiple times, but when she does it the last time, he yelps "Oh, no, no, please!" and ejaculates. She just chuckles and tells him how pretty and sexy he is.
Length: 8:01
Title and Link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Participants: "Girl from work" and man
Faces: No
Special Features: Cock ring. Nice, long video. Consensual ruined orgasm, because he actually tells her when to stop stroking.
Length: 16:30
Title and Link: Nurse ruins orgasm three times!
Participants: Nurse and patient
Faces: Hers
Special Features: He ejaculates three times in the course of the video. She wears a uniform and safety gogles (CFNM).
Length: 9:49
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery
Ruined Orgasms III
Title and Link: Wife gives slow handjob with ruined orgasm
Participants: Wife and husband
Faces: No
Special Features: She lets go of his penis multiple times, but when she does it the last time, he yelps "Oh, no, no, please!" and ejaculates. She just chuckles and tells him how pretty and sexy he is.
Length: 8:01
Title and Link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Participants: "Girl from work" and man
Faces: No
Special Features: Cock ring. Nice, long video. Consensual ruined orgasm, because he actually tells her when to stop stroking.
Length: 16:30
Title and Link: Nurse ruins orgasm three times!
Participants: Nurse and patient
Faces: Hers
Special Features: He ejaculates three times in the course of the video. She wears a uniform and safety gogles (CFNM).
Length: 9:49
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery
Ruined Orgasms III
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery
When is a man's orgasm not an orgasm? When it's a ruined orgasm. Yep, it's another mystery of boyparts.
Here's how it works. You give your man a handjob. You get him very close to coming. Then you let go. If all goes well, his erect penis will twitch and ejaculate. If he's not quite ready, stroke him some more and let go. Repeat as necessary. (If your man is enough of a submissive, you might get him to tell you when he's close to coming.)
You get to enjoy what appears to be a (potentially spectacular) male orgasm. He, on the other hand, will feel frustrated that you didn't stroke him to completion. (It's similar to the anal/prostate orgasm without penile stimulation that I've written about before.)
Unless you're a total femdom, I recommend you discuss this with your man and get his OK before doing it. I don't recommend springing it on him unannounced; that would be cruel. (Of course, if you are a total femdom, that's probably a selling point.)
I talked about this with The Boyfriend, and he agreed to try it. So we did. He said it was, um, interesting, but he's in no hurry to do it again.
I learned about ruined orgasms from Ruined Orgasms at the blog Caroline Cucks Michael (includes a 9-minute video of multiple ruined orgasms). Here's another video compilation.
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms II
Ruined Orgasms III
Here's how it works. You give your man a handjob. You get him very close to coming. Then you let go. If all goes well, his erect penis will twitch and ejaculate. If he's not quite ready, stroke him some more and let go. Repeat as necessary. (If your man is enough of a submissive, you might get him to tell you when he's close to coming.)
You get to enjoy what appears to be a (potentially spectacular) male orgasm. He, on the other hand, will feel frustrated that you didn't stroke him to completion. (It's similar to the anal/prostate orgasm without penile stimulation that I've written about before.)
Unless you're a total femdom, I recommend you discuss this with your man and get his OK before doing it. I don't recommend springing it on him unannounced; that would be cruel. (Of course, if you are a total femdom, that's probably a selling point.)
I talked about this with The Boyfriend, and he agreed to try it. So we did. He said it was, um, interesting, but he's in no hurry to do it again.
I learned about ruined orgasms from Ruined Orgasms at the blog Caroline Cucks Michael (includes a 9-minute video of multiple ruined orgasms). Here's another video compilation.
Other posts in this series
Ruined Orgasms II
Ruined Orgasms III
Friday, September 2, 2011
Prostate Milking and Femdom
Just when I think I understand boyparts, this comes along: Another very effective milking technique has a whole bunch of lovely tips for prostate milking your man (such as, "You just have to be careful that you never, ever touch the head of his penis" *), then this:
The "submissive transvestite" who blogs at In Stockings agrees. In a post called Ass Whore, he describes riding "Miss H"'s strapon:
This was certainly news to me! I thought that when a man comes (ejaculates), he comes (orgasms). No need to guess, as you guys sometimes need to do with us women. But if it's possible to make him come (ejaculate) without letting him come (orgasm), do you know what this means? Why, I can have my cake and eat it, too, so to speak! If I'm in the mood to deny The Boyfriend an orgasm -- and I am sometimes -- I can milk his prostate.
I get:
He gets:
Advantage: Vickie!
* This is very important, because if you give him too much penile stimulation at the same time you are giving him prostate stimulation (stroke and poke, you might say), you might give him the ultimate male orgasm, according to Svetlana at Sex Secrets. That's nice, too, of course, but it's a very different outcome if you were planning to deny your man a real orgasm.
Tip of the dildo to New Ryder for the first post.
But strangely, he doesn’t really cum that way, it’s not like a real orgasm where he spurts his cum all over. To hear him describe it, and from what I’ve read about it, it’s not really sexually pleasurable for a man. It’s more frustrating than pleasurable. Like intensely frustrating. My hubby describes it as getting close to cumming… getting close… getting close… getting really close… and then “OH FUCK!”… not being able to cum.
The "submissive transvestite" who blogs at In Stockings agrees. In a post called Ass Whore, he describes riding "Miss H"'s strapon:
I felt a rather week feeling of cumming and looked down to see a huge puddle of cum flooding across Miss H's stomach. We both kind of looked at each other in shock and I rolled off of her, both of us smiling ear to ear. It was definitely something new for each of us. I never felt that kind of building pressure in my cock followed by an orgasm and release the way I would if I were just masturbating or having regular sex. Instead it was more of a pleasurable sensation followed by ejaculation with little if any orgasm involved. While it was nice, it had all the drawbacks of cumming (feeling instantly out of the mood for anything else sexual) and none of the bonuses (experiencing the pleasure of a full orgasm). Which actually puts it even behind a standard ruined orgasm on the pleasure scale.
This was certainly news to me! I thought that when a man comes (ejaculates), he comes (orgasms). No need to guess, as you guys sometimes need to do with us women. But if it's possible to make him come (ejaculate) without letting him come (orgasm), do you know what this means? Why, I can have my cake and eat it, too, so to speak! If I'm in the mood to deny The Boyfriend an orgasm -- and I am sometimes -- I can milk his prostate.
I get:
- To play with his butt
- To see him come (ejaculate)
- To deny him coming (orgasming)
He gets:
- Prostate stimulation
Advantage: Vickie!
* This is very important, because if you give him too much penile stimulation at the same time you are giving him prostate stimulation (stroke and poke, you might say), you might give him the ultimate male orgasm, according to Svetlana at Sex Secrets. That's nice, too, of course, but it's a very different outcome if you were planning to deny your man a real orgasm.
Tip of the dildo to New Ryder for the first post.
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