Showing posts with label CFNM. Show all posts
Showing posts with label CFNM. Show all posts

Monday, January 16, 2012

Ruined Orgasms III

A few more discoveries on the subject of ruined orgasms. (I think this topic has risen to the level of an abiding interest, if not an obsession.)

Ruinit's videos

Someone called Ruinit has posted a series of videos to Xtube. The videos star Mr. Ruinit's penis, which is long and slightly curved and sports a cock ring. Co-starring is "Girl from work's" hands, which are nicely manicured and sometimes wearing jewelery. Spoiler warning: I give away the endings and whether they are happy or not.

Title and link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Hand: Right hand, brown nail polish
Length: 16:30
Comments: I've written about this one before. It's a long video that ends with a ruined orgasm, but he must have wanted that, because he warns her when he's getting close to coming.

Title and link: Ruined orgasm again girl from work
Hand: Left hand, bracelet (maybe not the same "girl from work" as the first one?)
Length: 12:55
Comments: Another long video, but this one ends with no orgasm/ejaculation. It's either orgasm denial, or it's just the first part of the scene, the ending of which comes in the next video.

Title and link: Ruined orgasm #2
Hand: Left hand, bracelet
Length: 5:31
Comments: Could be a continuation of the previous video; the hand and the background look the same. Ends with a ruined orgasm.

Another Video

This video, Tease Denial Edging, was recommended in a comment by the Married Sub (tip of the dildo!). It's a lovely 13-minute handjob, ending in a ruined orgasm. You can find other videos of this same talented woman if you apply yourself. I don't want to post too much information for fear these videos will go away.

Milovana

Milovana's slogan is "For the explorer at heart," so you might think it was about all kinds of sexual kinks. However, it's mainly devoted to femdom, specifically tease and denial.

There's a forum, in which ruined orgasms are a major topic of discussion:



Most of the participants seem to be men, but there are a few femdoms who add their opinions.

What really sets this site apart, however, are the web teases. Most of them are aimed at men and feature a woman telling the user what to do as he follows along (i.e., masturbates). Almost all have an element of femdom, and some lead to ruined orgasms. (Some let you make choices along the way the lead to different outcomes -- so to speak.) It's not easy to find the ones involving ruined orgasms. A few are tagged with ruined orgasm. You can also find them by browsing the forums where people talk about them. Here's a couple I like:



Why would a woman want to watch these? Simple: to get tips about how to dominate your man (if both of you are into this).

Note: Most of the videos are in the Flash format, which could be a problem for some mobile devices. There are also conventional HTML web teases, too.

Other posts in this series

Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery

Ruined Orgasms II

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Ruined Orgasms II

Even if The Boyfriend has lost interest in ruined orgasms, it doesn't mean I have. I keep searching for good videos on this subject, but most of them are too femdommy for me (humiliation, men in leather masks, and actual torture of men's genitalia; word to the wise: avoid anything that says CBT). However, here's three I like:

Title and Link: Wife gives slow handjob with ruined orgasm
Participants: Wife and husband
Faces: No
Special Features: She lets go of his penis multiple times, but when she does it the last time, he yelps "Oh, no, no, please!" and ejaculates. She just chuckles and tells him how pretty and sexy he is.
Length: 8:01

Title and Link: Girl from work ruined orgasm
Participants: "Girl from work" and man
Faces: No
Special Features: Cock ring. Nice, long video. Consensual ruined orgasm, because he actually tells her when to stop stroking.
Length: 16:30

Title and Link: Nurse ruins orgasm three times!
Participants: Nurse and patient
Faces: Hers
Special Features: He ejaculates three times in the course of the video. She wears a uniform and safety gogles (CFNM).
Length: 9:49

Other posts in this series

Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery

Ruined Orgasms III

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Ruined Orgasms: Another Mystery

When is a man's orgasm not an orgasm? When it's a ruined orgasm. Yep, it's another mystery of boyparts.

Here's how it works. You give your man a handjob. You get him very close to coming. Then you let go. If all goes well, his erect penis will twitch and ejaculate. If he's not quite ready, stroke him some more and let go. Repeat as necessary. (If your man is enough of a submissive, you might get him to tell you when he's close to coming.)

You get to enjoy what appears to be a (potentially spectacular) male orgasm. He, on the other hand, will feel frustrated that you didn't stroke him to completion. (It's similar to the anal/prostate orgasm without penile stimulation that I've written about before.)

Unless you're a total femdom, I recommend you discuss this with your man and get his OK before doing it. I don't recommend springing it on him unannounced; that would be cruel. (Of course, if you are a total femdom, that's probably a selling point.)

I talked about this with The Boyfriend, and he agreed to try it. So we did. He said it was, um, interesting, but he's in no hurry to do it again.

I learned about ruined orgasms from Ruined Orgasms at the blog Caroline Cucks Michael (includes a 9-minute video of multiple ruined orgasms). Here's another video compilation.

Other posts in this series

Ruined Orgasms II

Ruined Orgasms III

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Strap Attack 11 (featuring Charisma Cappelli)

I watched "Strap Attack 11" recently. My favorite scene, which features Charisma Cappelli, has a nice twist on the typical dildo-sucking sequence found in so much strap-on porn.

The scene opens with an unseen male Interviewer questioning Charisma outside her house. The dialog goes something like this (slightly edited):


Interviewer: You expect a lot from your man, huh?

Charisma: Oh, abso-fucking-lutely ... oh, you know, daily chores, laundry, dishes.

Interviewer: You don't do that shit?

Charisma: Fuck no! Why do you have a man for? You have to make him please you -- cook dinner, bathe me, wash me.

Interviewer: Why?

Charisma: Because he's my little bitch.

Interviewer: When are you nice to him?

Charisma: In bed.

Interviewer:You're a strong girl, huh?

Charisma: Yeah, I can kick his ass. If he doesn't do what I asked to get done, he gets punished.


Turns out her man (a big muscular bald guy) laundered the towels and cleaned the kitchen, but didn't make dinner. She orders him to make dinner, he refuses, and there's a little physical stuff (from both parties) I could have lived without.

"I know how you can make it up to me," she says, "by letting me fuck you for a change."

"Do I have a choice?"

"No, you don't or you're out."

After the cut, he's naked with an erection, while she's wearing a black and pink outfit with short skirt (CFNM, anyone?). They do 69, then she sits on his face and practically smothers him. When he objects, she says, "Don't stop!"

She remembers that she wants to fuck him and is soon wearing nothing but a corset, leather boots, and strap-on dildo. She has him suck it. She lies down and starts using a vibrator on herself. I don't know about you, but for me, this gave the dildo-sucking a completely different feel. It's as if his sucking is directly stimulating her real genitals. She comes multiple times, most times holding his head on her "cock" until she does so.

She rims and fingers his ass. She sucks and strokes his cock as she continues to finger his ass. "You like being my little bitch, huh?" (If this is femdom, many men would sign up in a minute!)

She slides her dildo in his ass and begins to screw him. She lies behind him and screws him some more, quite deeply too. Then she takes his ass doggy style.

She sucks his cock and then rides him reverse cowgirl. They screw so hard, the dildo falls out of the harness.

He talks about coming. "I'm going to make you fucking come," she says and pegs him until he does just that.

Find it wherever fine porn is sold, rented, and streamed.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Masturbation Instruction

I've discovered a new genre of video (new to me, anyway). It's called masturbation instruction (substitute the slang term of your choice). I can't imagine many men on the Internet need instructions in how to masturbate, but that's not really what these are about anyway. They're more like masturbation commands.

I've only seen a few of these, so I'm not sure how much I can generalize, but I'll try. Basically, a woman, fully or mostly clothed, comes onscreen and tells the (male) viewer how he should be masturbating -- how fast, what strokes, and most importantly, when he is allowed to (and must) come for her. I guess they're a kind of femdom* and also a species of the subgenre CFNM, since the woman may be clothed, but the man watching her: not so much.

Tip of, er, something to Married Sub, who alerted me to these videos. See his favorite masturbation instruction video.

(*) When I go looking for pegging material, I often come across femdom stuff, since people often associate the two, even though pegging doesn't have to include female dominance. But, then, some people like it and that's cool, too.

Update: Married Sub's comment below and recent post reminded me of yet another related genre: orgasm denial.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Prostate massage and handjob

Delicious/vickiep



Prostate massage and handjob

Posted: 28 Jan 2011 05:00 PM PST

Video: First time anal play for him!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

CFNM Strap-on Videos

As I've written before, I'm not into dominance with my pegging, but there's a mild form of dominance that some of you might find interesting. It's called clothed-female-nude-male (CFNM). I guess the idea is that the man has to degrade himself by getting naked, but the woman doesn't. I wouldn't have thought that it would go with pegging, but here's some videos that combine the two. They all feature a brunette woman wearing a jockey outfit and a strap-on dildo and a man wearing not so much.