Santorum, one more time

Even though we won't have Rick Santorum to kick around any more (for now, anyway), we can still enjoy these words of wisdom from Porn Stars against Santorum and participate in Wank Out 2012 at 8 p.m. on May 1.

Wifey's Surprise

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Rye is a take charge guy

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Uncommon Appetites: A Take Charge Guy. Posted: 07 Mar 2011 07:56 AM PST Rye masturbates with an anal toy. His wife Violet documents the proceedings.

Bisexual Guy F*cks His Boyfriend and Hot Brunette

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Hot Bisexual Threesome

Here's a very nice video: Hot Bisexual Threesome. Starts with a man-woman couple getting it on -- sucking, 69, and so on. He's muscular with a long, curved penis. She's a thin brunette. She likes to touch herself as her man screws her. (This is something I like to do myself, and I like to see it in porn. You -- or your partner -- can do it, too.)

Another man walks down the beach and into their house. The first man invites him in. He's got gorgeous blue eyes and wears an earring. The woman sits on Muscles' face; she and Blue Eyes take turns sucking his cock. Blue Eyes gets into a 69 with the woman and sucks Muscles some more.

Blue Eyes screws the woman, she touches herself, and both share Muscles' cock.

The woman sits on Blue Eyes' face as Muscles gets ready to screw him. She shifts to holding his legs up, then touching herself, while cheering on the guys. Blue Eyes strokes himself to orgasm. Later, she sucks Blue Eyes and Muscles comes in her face.

Masturbation Instruction

I've discovered a new genre of video (new to me, anyway). It's called masturbation instruction (substitute the slang term of your choice). I can't imagine many men on the Internet need instructions in how to masturbate, but that's not really what these are about anyway. They're more like masturbation commands.

I've only seen a few of these, so I'm not sure how much I can generalize, but I'll try. Basically, a woman, fully or mostly clothed, comes onscreen and tells the (male) viewer how he should be masturbating -- how fast, what strokes, and most importantly, when he is allowed to (and must) come for her. I guess they're a kind of femdom* and also a species of the subgenre CFNM, since the woman may be clothed, but the man watching her: not so much.

Tip of, er, something to Married Sub, who alerted me to these videos. See his favorite masturbation instruction video.

(*) When I go looking for pegging material, I often come across femdom stuff, since people often associate the two, even though pegging doesn't have to include female dominance. But, then, some people like it and that's cool, too.

Update: Married Sub's comment below and recent post reminded me of yet another related genre: orgasm denial.

Jennifer's husband comes out of the closet

I'm not usually into the whole cuckold-bisexual scene. It's often portrayed as something the woman forces on her man and so becomes another form of femdom. On the other hand, if all parties are into it, then it can be a hot way to introduce an MMF threesome.

At the beginning of Jennifer's Husband Comes Out of the Closet, Jennifer's husband -- a bald man who looks like Michael Stipe of R.E.M. -- is masturbating to a threesome video showing a black man screwing a white woman as her husband holds her. Jennifer comes home and catches her husband watching this video. She freaks out, but soon agrees to cuckold her husband as he hides in the closet, just not with a black guy. (A lot of cuckold videos seem to have the added element of the other man being African-American. There may be a racist subtext to this, but it's clearly a turn-on for some people.)

Jennifer brings home a man from work. She assures him that her husband is not home. As Jennifer starts to go down on her lover, he hears something and asks what it is, prompting Jennifer's husband to come out of the closet (get it?).

"What's he?" the lover asks.

"He's a cuckold," Jennifer answers.

"Oh really? That's cool. Why don't you come over here and help your wife suck this cock, then?"

As the husband goes down on his wife's lover, Jennifer pushes his head down, encouraging him to take it deep. Husband and wife take turns sucking their lover, until she climbs on top to ride him cowgirl style. Hubby stations himself down below to lick his balls.

After a break for a little more sucking, Jennifer turns around for reverse cowgirl. Her husband inserts their lover's dick into her pussy. As they screw, he frequently goes down on both of them and, at one point, rubs the lover's penis against her clitoris before reinserting it.

(I have to say, much as I enjoy MMF threesome videos -- the definition of which is that there is some man-on-man action involved -- I sometimes miss scenes in which the woman is the center of attention, as you find in MFM videos. Very often in MMF videos, for example, you see the two men screwing, and the woman will be stroking or sucking the bottom man's cock. Don't get me wrong; I love that! But what about the reverse? What if the woman and one of the men are screwing? Why can't the other man stroke or lick her pussy? I've rarely seen that happen, but this video is proof that a woman can get that extra attention in an MMF video.)

More sucking, again with Jennifer strongly encouraging her husband.

Jennifer's husband goes down on her as their lover kisses her breasts.

"You two are wonderful," she says. "Get that pussy wet for that cock."

The lover goes back to screwing Jennifer, this time spoons-style. Again, Hubby licks both their genitals. She holds his face, so he can watch them screw.

Jennifer has her husband suck their lover as she masturbates.

More screwing and licking. The lover ends by coming on Hubby's face, resting on Jennifer's belly.

After he leaves, Hubby rims Jennifer and then comes on her feet.

I love the way the wife is turned on by what her husband is doing -- as much or more than what she herself is doing.

Why masturbation helps procreation

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Why Masturbation Helps Procreation - Newsweek Posted: 12 Oct 2010 07:34 PM PDT There are good evolutionary reasons for male masturbation. Females do it just because it feels good!

Outercourse (non-penetrative sex)

Suppose you're having sex with a man, but you don't want to put his penis in your vagina, anus, or mouth.

Why would I want to do that?

You might want to do this in order to:

• Reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases
• Reduce the risk of pregnancy
• Save intercourse for later
• Be intimate when you can't have intercourse because of health issues
  
• Deny your partner an orgasm
• Try something new and hot

Whoa, back up there, Vickie. "Deny your partner an orgasm"? What??!

Yes, it's true; some women and men are turned on by the idea of not letting the man come during sex. However, these practices don't require the man not to come. He can still get off, if that's what's desired.

OK, Vickie, but are these practices really sex?

The practices I'm referring to are known as non-penetrative sex. They are also sometimes called outercourse. Some of them come under the name of frottage.

But what is it exactly, Vickie?

Non-penetrative sex acts (outercourse) include:

• Kissing
• Talking dirty
• Phone sex, text sex, etc.
• Nipple play
  
• Stroking yourself (masturbation)
• Stroking your partner (mutual/shared masturbation, handjob)
• Rubbing the external parts of the female genitalia (vulva, clitoris) with hands, foot, penis, etc.
  
• Rubbing the penis with hands, foot, breasts, thighs, buttocks, vulva, anal entrance, etc.
  
• Frottage ("dry humping")
  

But, Vickie, is it hot sex?

Still not sure non-penetrative sex can be hot? Check out this video featuring porn star Liza Harper.

Do you practice non-penetrative sex? If so, what do you do and why? Tell us about it in the comments below. You can do it anonymously if you want.

Watching a Video

I did get some up-close-and-personal time with the bf over the weekend. I can't say any more than that because he's a very private man who doesn't want me writing about our sex life. But just because I can't tell you about our sex life doesn't mean I can't tell you about my sex life.

The bf was working overtime on a server upgrade. I had time to myself and started to think that if I couldn't fuck my bf with a dildo, I might as well put it to good use in another way.

I got the dil out of my toy drawer and put on one of my favorite movies, "Babes Ballin' Boys."

The first scene is really cute. Sharon Kane asks her big, strong boyfriend if they can engage in some anal play. She's so coy about it. When her boyfriend consents, she's shy about even getting near his asshole, which takes some acting considering that Sharon has been in about 800 porn videos and has probably done or seen everything imaginable.

Eventually, though, she fingers, licks, and fucks his ass. Then he sits on her strap-on and rides it in a position which, if he was a woman, would be called reverse cowgirl.

As I watched this, I used the dildo on my pussy and my clit, but I only let myself come twice.

When Sharon's man has enough ass-fucking, he lies down and jacks off. Sharon helps him by licking his nipples and tickling his balls. I love to watch a man masturbate. They are so rough with their dicks -- rougher than I would ever dare to be.

I like the next scene of the movie, too. A skinny hippie boy goes to a prostitute and asks her to fuck his ass with a strap-on. It wasn't quite what I was in the mood for tonight, so I skipped it.

The next scene was the one I was most looking forward to. It starts out with a man using an unstrapped strap-on on his ass and jacking off. You know how I enjoyed that. Then a woman appears, with the dildo strapped on, and fucks the man in the ass.

Next, he takes the strap-on off of her and goes down on her. Nice as it is to be the active, penetrating party, it's also nice to lie back and enjoy a man's tongue on your pussy and clit.

Then -- and here's the best part -- the man picks up a double-headed dildo and inserts one end in the woman's pussy and the other in his own ass. As they are both fucking the other and being fucked, they masturbate, too. There's a man getting fucked in the ass and jacking off. I like that! There's a woman getting fucked in the pussy (as I was fucking myself with the dildo) and fingering her clit (as I was fingering my own clit). I like that, too! I had wave upon wave of orgasms.

After all of that, I was feeling relaxed and refreshed when my bf, the slave of the computers, finally got home.

Love,
Vickie