Nina Hartley tells you how to make love with older women

In this video, veteran porn actress * Nina Hartley tells you how to make love with older women. She discusses the emotional as well as the physical aspects. As an older woman -- well, older than some people -- I appreciate everything she has to say. * Nina is 56 and still going strong.

Her husband gives her permission to see old boyfriend

A woman writes in to Savage Love this week saying that she's been in contact with a former boyfriend. "My loving, GGG [good, giving, game] husband says that I can help my old flame out if I wish. What would you do in this situation?" writes the woman, who signs herself Chick with 2 Dicks.

"What would I do?" Dan begins his reply. "Besides thank my lucky stars, kiss my loving, GGG husband, and fuck the shit out of the other guy?"

Turns out there are a few pitfalls. Read the full column to learn more.

Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise

I want to tell you about Ruby Ryder. Ruby is a friend of mine from Tribe.net, where she recently took on the leadership of the Pegging 101 group.

She also has a web site called Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise, where you'll find her blog and two marvelous essays:

• Convincing Her to Try It


• Convincing Him to Try It

In addition, she writes some hot erotic stories about pegging. Some of these are free, but you can get more of them on a regular basis if you pay for a subscription.

Vibrator video; You're not a "homo" if you like pegging

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Joanna Lark's advice on strapping on

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Strip Off And Strap-On- Joanna Lark Posted: 03 Sep 2010 03:03 AM PDT Nice page of advice for women.

Strap-on video and size advice

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Strapon surprise in the Gym Posted: 23 Aug 2010 04:28 AM PDT Video.

What size dildo for my strap-on? - Girls pegging boys - tribe.net Posted: 23 Aug 2010 04:04 AM PDT Very practical advice

You can touch yourself ...

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Qucikies: Savage Love by Dan Savage Posted: 22 Aug 2010 10:46 AM PDT "Here's something you may not know about vaginal penetration ... because it's not something that's typically covered in small-town high-school sex-ed classes: You can touch yourself during vaginal intercourse. Whatever you're doing that's getting you off when you're alone, ICC, do that thing—touch yourself that way."

(Not so) Confidential to an Anonymous reader: What strap-on gear do you use for her pleasure?

Recently, an anonymous reader posted the following comment:

A couple of years ago, I had the pleas[ur]e of buying a strap-on for my girlfriend to use on me.

We chose one that gave her inserts for vag + anal. After about 20 minutes of getting pounded hard, I had had the pleasure of looking up at her and watching her orgasm while fucking me. HOT! I'm in the market for a new one for my current gf, and found your blog in my research.

Because I, too, am in the market for strap-on gear that will give me a turn-on also, I said, "I'd be *very interested* to know what kind of strap-on gave your girlfriend an orgasm!" Since he hasn't answered me yet -- I'm assuming he hasn't seen my response to his comment -- I decided to highlight the question here.

If you are the anonymous reader who posted the comment above, please let me know what you used with your girlfriend?

If you are someone else who has experience with strap-on gear that gave extra pleasure to the woman wearing it, I'd like to hear from you, too. Please post a comment below.

Vibrators for teens

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Vibrators for teens - Dan Savage, Savage Love Posted: 04 Aug 2010 06:10 PM PDT "Anyone old enough to have a dick in her tw*t is old enough to have a vibrator in her nightstand. And social and cultural conservatives are apparently unaware of e-commerce. Amazon has a nice selection of vibrators. Young ladies who want a vibrator don't need to be of legal age to enter venues that sell sexual paraphernalia. All they need is internet access and a credit card."

Anal for women and men

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Sex Secrets » Blog Archive » My First Anal Sex Experience Posted: 01 Jul 2010 05:40 AM PDT Svetlana writes about her first time.

Slipping - The Fiona Files IV Posted: 01 Jul 2010 05:27 AM PDT A male rape fantasy, if you can believe that, with a woman watching and masturbating. It was hot, even with the spelling and other errors.

MFM/MMF threesome rules; milking cartoon

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MFM Threesome – 7 Rules « Dating tips, relationship advice | DateDaily.com Posted: 30 May 2010 02:34 PM PDT "Sometimes the men involved may feel comfortable enough to play with each other so that the woman can sit back and enjoy the scene.... You can even feel free to masturbate if the mood strikes."

bendoverboyfriend: milking Posted: 30 May 2010 01:07 PM PDT

Pegging and other fun with sex toys

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Bend Over, Boyfriend: The Ins and Outs of Pegging | Doin' It Well Posted: 28 May 2010 07:54 AM PDT

Toy Party with Pictures « ZymurgyMike Posted: 28 May 2010 07:26 AM PDT Cara goes to a sextoy party with her girlfriends

Advice for women on pegging and best bisexual movies

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Dan Savage on Wiggle Room

Wiggle Room: Savage Love - Dan Savage One woman doesn't like anal sex, another one does, a straight couple likes pegging, and a New Hampshire politician gets grossed out by it all. No, thank you, LBIP, because every time a straight girl sticks something up a straight boy's ass, a bigoted state representative dies a little inside. There you have it. You can strike a blow for sexual freedom (and maybe even legalized same-sex marriage) by pegging someone. Do it today!

Pegging - doing your boyfriend with a strap-on

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Pegging - Doing Your Boyfriend With a Strap on Posted: 20 Feb 2010 11:35 PM PST

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What makes a woman want to masturbate?

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What Makes A Woman Want To Masturbate? Posted: 12 Feb 2010 03:02 AM PST "Many women will do masturbation during intercourse with their partner. There are times when your partner cannot reach the right spot to help you to have an orgasm, while you are having sex. Your partner also may like to know that you are pleasuring yourself, and they will probably want to watch. This can also give your partner sexual pleasure by just watching you. This will make for a better relationship."

Violet Blue picks sex toys that will change your life

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Sex Toys That Will Change Your Life / Violet Blue: Can a sex toy change your life? For many, the answer is yes Posted: 17 Dec 2009 07:16 PM PST

She likes to watch

One of Dan Savage's correspondents this week writes:

I'm a hetero girl. I love masturbating, but I get nothing from hetero porn. I can't stand the girls' annoying voices. So I rely on gay porn. I tend to go for what you gay guys call "twinks." (Who the hell is a twink, technically speaking? Please don't tell me it's anything statutory!) I'm not concerned, just curious: I get really intrigued when I meet gay guys in real life because I get off to so many in porn. I would love to watch two twinks in reality at some point, but I'm not sure if gay guys would be into that.

Twink Lover

Don't miss Dan's answer and the comments from other women with similar tastes as T.L.

Savage column: Crossing over

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Savage Love: Crossing Over Posted: 25 Nov 2009 07:08 AM PST Advice for those having sexual relationships outside their usual orientations

Needest thou advys about lovinge?

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Ask Rodger Goodwyn Posted: 18 Nov 2009 08:54 PM PST Sex advice from a 17th century blogger