Showing posts with label bisexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bisexuality. Show all posts

Friday, August 26, 2011

Good News for Bisexual Men: You Exist After All!

This just in: the New York Times reports that scientists at Northwestern University have determined that bisexual men do, in fact, exist.

This is news because a previous "widely publicized" study determined that bisexual men were fooling themselves and/or their loved ones. According to the earlier study, bisexual men were mostly gay (or sometimes straight). Who did that study? Scientists at Northwestern. Where was it widely publicized? In the New York Times. (To be fair, the recent NYT story had the grace to link to the older one.)

I can just imagine the damage this must have caused.

MAN: Honey, I have something to tell you. I'm bisexual.
WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND: You mean you're gay??!
MAN: No, I'm bisexual.
WoG: You're gay! It says so in the New York Times.

Or conversely:

MAN: Honey, I have something to tell you. I'm bisexual.
MALE PARTNER: You mean you're straight??!
MAN: No, I'm bisexual.
MP: You're straight! It says so in the New York Times.

From the NYT:

“I’ve interviewed a lot of individuals about how invalidating it is when their own family members think they’re confused or going through a stage or in denial,” [Dr. Lisa Diamond] said.


The more recent study actually made an effort to find bisexual men. They used bisexual web sites and chose men with serious experience with both genders. Then, they monitored their genitals as they watched man-on-man and woman-on-woman videos. Bisexual men -- go figure! -- got turned on by both.

Despite her cautious praise of the new research, Dr. Diamond also noted that the kind of sexual arousal tested in the studies is only one element of sexual orientation and identity. And simply interpreting results about sexual arousal is complicated, because monitoring genital response to erotic images in a laboratory setting cannot replicate an actual human interaction, she added.

“Sexual arousal is a very complicated thing,” she said. “The real phenomenon in day-to-day life is extraordinarily messy and multifactorial.”

Thursday, July 1, 2010

The last person out of the closet

CNN, of all places, has a lovely story about The last person out of the closet? The bisexual male. Much of the article concerns happily married (to a woman) Robert Winn, but the reactions he gets could apply to any bi guy:

He frequently battles the stereotypes of bisexuality: That bisexual men are promiscuous. That his relationships with men were just an adolescent phase. That his bisexuality is imaginary. That he's really a gay man trying to camouflage his orientation.
Read the whole article and share it with any bi men in your life.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Bisexuals: Putting the 'B' back in LGBT

The Guardian publishes a nice article about bisexuality:

Oddly, the only people not confused about bisexuality are the bisexuals themselves, with groups like The Bisexual Index advocating a clearer definition – they simply suggest anyone who is attracted to more than one gender should consider identifying as bi. It's not about amount of attraction either, just as simply preferring lettuce to liver doesn't make you a vegan.
Right on.

(Hat tip to: Tiny Nibbles.)

Friday, January 29, 2010

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Savage column: Crossing over

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Savage Love: Crossing Over

Posted: 25 Nov 2009 07:08 AM PST

Advice for those having sexual relationships outside their usual orientations

Monday, September 7, 2009

A series of "experiences"

A British man named Max Hunt has been writing some intriguing guest posts at Random Rim Jobs. In "An Experience", he meets a woman online and they have strap-on sex. In "Another Experience (Part 1)", he starts to meet men online, but, um, has some issues about certain sex acts. In "Another Experience (Part 2)", he goes all the way (as the kids say).

Thinking back, there was no hesitation on my part at this point, nothing inside my head saying that I should leave, only a desire to have my arse pounded by this guy’s cock.

Friday, August 14, 2009

Mostly pegging, mostly from Random Rim Jobs

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Teach Me How to Fuck Your Guy’s Ass » Random Rim Jobs

Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:57 AM PDT

Shazamsf on pegging

An Experience » Random Rim Jobs

Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:56 AM PDT

Guest post by a man with his strap-on experience

Random Rim Jobs

Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:53 AM PDT

This is a very sexy blog recounting the experiences of a bi woman

How to Find and Stimulate the Prostate – Exploring Anal Play for Men

Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:50 AM PDT

Saturday, April 25, 2009

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