Anal sex: doing it right

In a blog post, sex advice columnist Dan Savage reads a column by professional scold Michael Medved and sums up his attitude as Lesbians Make My Dick Hard...but gay guys? Not so much.

Medved:

The most common sexual practice between two men involves an act of aggression—inflicting more pain than pleasure for at least one of the parties.

Savage:

Um, gee. I don't mean to toss sand into Michael's lube, but... straight people have anal sex too. Lots of anal sex. And they like it.

And anyone who's "inflicting more pain than pleasure" during sex—anally, orally, vaginally—is doing it wrong.

Vickie sums up:

1. Lots of different people -- male-female couples and female-female couples, as well as male-male couples -- have anal sex. You just need a partner, and at least one of you needs to have an anus. (You don't even need a partner.)
2. Believe it or not, some gay men don't have anal sex at all. Would that make them less disgusting to those like Medved who want to judge people by what they do in bed?
3. And let's not forget Dan's last point: if you're inflicting more pain than pleasure, you're doing it wrong.

I recommend reading the whole post.

Tonight is New Year's Eve. I hope you stay safe and that you're able to give someone some pleasure. See you again in 2011.

CFNM Strap-on Videos

As I've written before, I'm not into dominance with my pegging, but there's a mild form of dominance that some of you might find interesting. It's called clothed-female-nude-male (CFNM). I guess the idea is that the man has to degrade himself by getting naked, but the woman doesn't. I wouldn't have thought that it would go with pegging, but here's some videos that combine the two. They all feature a brunette woman wearing a jockey outfit and a strap-on dildo and a man wearing not so much.

• Brunette makes guy clean her boots, put his hands under her feet, and suck her "dick"
• Same couple pegging from a sitting position
• The brunette pegs the guy from a standing position
  
• Continuation, in which the brunette rides his ass and even holds his mouth like a horse's
  

Brunette loves being on top

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Little taiko boy

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[Video] Gorgeous, Gay and Very Sexy – Little Taiko Boy | violet blue ® :: open source sex Posted: 20 Dec 2010 09:50 PM PST Japanese video of the drag goddess who leaves all the gay men bejewelled condoms. There's no actual sex in this, just a cute fantasy for gay/bi boys and the women who love them.

The End of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell"

The Senate has voted to end "Don't ask, don't tell." President Barack Obama will certainly sign the bill, which already passed the House. (Translation for my non-U.S. readers: this means that gays and lesbians will soon be able to serve openly in our military, something that many other countries have been doing for years.)

Yahoo leaves a bad taste in my mouth

Yahoo is "sunsetting" its Delicious service, according to a leaked internal presentation. So not cool. Lots of people, including me, used it to save and share links. I even had it set up to post my links here (after approval). It was very convenient for me. I also loved the way you could add as many tags as you wanted (unlike Blogger) and bundle them in different ways. If you have any great ideas about a replacement service, let me know.

Update: Delicious says:

Is Delicious being shut down? And should I be worried about my data?

- No, we are not shutting down Delicious. While we have determined that there is not a strategic fit at Yahoo!, we believe there is a ideal home for Delicious outside of the company where it can be resourced to the level where it can be competitive.

Bigger and Better

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