Sunday, June 26, 2011

How does a woman reach orgasm pegging?

A man on Tribe.net asked me, "How does a woman reach orgasm pegging?" (This is my kind of man. He wants to get pegged, yet he wants to be sure the woman has an orgasm, too.) I replied:

I suggest you post this question on one of the Tribe groups devoted to pegging, but here's my answer:

There are three main ways a woman can come by pegging:

1. Attaching a vibrator in or on the dildo. (Many dildos are made to allow a bullet vibe to fit inside.)
2. Using a two-headed dildo, especially one that's made to fit in a man's anus and a woman's vagina, such as a Feeldoe.
3. Pegging the man real well, then making him give her the cunnilingus of her life as a reward! (Ha!)

10 comments:

  1. Hi Vickie
    Nice post.
    They way we do it is with the time honored 'reach around'.
    With me on my back and her above, I simply reach around (in my case with the right hand), find my way under the harness and stroke her.
    This is very intimate and beautiful - with her continuing to gently fuck me while I get her off.
    As far as cunnilingus? - well, yeah!
    Thanks V
    -ryder

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  2. Agreed! Well put, Vickie. I've come every time I've pegged Rye. I pop the We Vibe into my pussy and then strap it on. Works every time. And what an orgasm it is...

    -Violet

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  3. Violet and Ryder,

    I didn't realize I wrote such a thought-provoking post that two of my favorite bloggers would be moved to comment. I'm honored.

    Yours,
    Vickie P.

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  4. Funny..this is one of my biggest concerns: That my wife be able to enjoy it as much or more than I do. If it were just for me I would probably never mention it. Still haven't told her yet but when the kids finally leave the house and we can have the place to ourselves I think I'll broach the subject. I have to find a way that doesn't make me seem less masculine in her eyes. My wife is completely turned off by anything but a man's man which I am but that doesn't mean I'm not curious.

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  5. You are a sweet man. Are you sure these are really obstacles? 1) Don't the kids ever go to the grandparents' house? summer camp? friends' houses? movies? I don't think you have to wait until they are 18.

    2) You can never be anything but a man's man? I think a man's man can get pegged sometimes, and I hope your wife might agree.

    Anyway, I suggest you take a look at http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2011/06/convincing-her-to-try-it/

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  6. Vicky I have thought of all those and it is only about 3-6 more months until they should all be out of the house. All 4 are between 18-24 and we can get 1-2 out at any one time but they just show back up at random times. Our sex life is good the way it is but looking forward to it being even better. We are both serious about fitness and I always make sure she is taken care of and feels loved. We have experimented with most things in the bedroom to some degree so there is hope for the future. I've read all your stuff on here and feel it is very helpful and informative. Sex should be fun is my motto too. :-)

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  7. Sounds good. I wish you and your wife well.

    Vickie

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  8. Vickie et al,

    Great post and conversation!

    I was wondering if any of you knew of videos out there which feature couples pegging to mutual orgasm (hopefully genuine)? If so that might help with the instructional nature of this thread! I'd be all eyes!

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  9. Good question, Mr. Cumlately. I meant to write about this at some point in the future, but I know of a few good videos that feature a man and a woman sharing a double dildo.

    Vintage Bisex Trio (MMF)

    Strap-on Training (MFF)

    I don't recall if either party comes in these videos (there is a lot going on in both of them).

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  10. Wow that was a great conversation to read. Thank you.
    I wish I found a woman that pegged me and got off. I really wonder how it is to feel her shivering from joy on top of me.
    Oh well, one day...

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