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Sunday, April 5, 2015

Vickie's Vocabulary, ver. 1.0

My friends say I can curse like a sailor, but this isn't about four-letter words (mostly). It's about the terms for sexual organs and acts that I use for posts here on my blog, for my favorites on Xvideos, and for my links on Diigo.

Adorable, beautiful, cute, gorgeous, hot, lovely, pretty, sweet
These words, which used to be applied almost exclusively to women, are now frequently used by women to apply to men's faces, bodies, and body parts. I think it reflects a changing power dynamic. Women look at, admire, and lust after male beauty and are not ashamed to admit it.
Anal sex
The insertion of a penis or a strap-on dildo into one's partner's anus for purposes of sexual pleasure; anal intercourse. (Yes, I know this violates my rule about using the word Sex for more than just intercourse.) See also Assplay, Pegging, Men fucking.
Anilingus
Licking of the anus. Syn.: Rimming.
Assplay
Sexual activity involving the buttocks or anus other than anal intercourse. See also Anal sex.
Balls
A man's testicles. They're called "balls" because they're fun to play with. Find some balls and play with them today.
Bull
See Lover.
CFNM
Clothed female, nude male. It's indicative of a woman's power in the encounter that she gets to keep her clothes on while the man must strip nude. Often part of femdom and male stripper scenes.
Cock
See Penis.
Come, to
verb To have an orgasm (male or female). Combining form: come inside
Creampie
Often used for a man's deposit of cum in a woman's pussy or anus. I use it to mean the act of a man eating a deposit of cum from a woman's pussy or anus. Often the one eating is a cuckold, the pussy belongs to his wife, and the cum came from her lover.
Crossdresser
See Transvestite
Cuckold
noun A husband whose wife is having sex with others. In modern fetish usage, the wife is usually conducting her extracurricular affairs with her husband's knowledge and consent. If everyone's agreeable, she may see her lover in her husband's presence and even with his participation. There may or may not be an element of humiliation in his status. See also Hotwife.
Cuckold, to
verb To make a man a cuckold. Example: Vickie cuckolded her husband Sam when she spent the night with her lover Lex.
Cum
noun The ejaculatory fluid that normally accompanies the male orgasm. Combining terms: cum eating, cumswap, cumplay. See also Creampie
Dick
See Penis.
Dildo
An artificial penis used for sexual pleasure. See also Vibrator.
Femdom
Any form of female dominance over men. May include cuckolding, humiliation, CFNM, orgasm denial/ruined orgasm, forced bisexuality, pegging, or sadomasochism.
Forced Bisexuality
When an ordinarily heterosexual man is forced by a woman to engage in homoerotic acts with another man. Sometimes part of cuckold or MMF scenes.
Frot
The practice of men rubbing their penises together. This is hot. You should do it if you're a man and you get a chance. You should also invite a straight woman to watch.
Frotteur
A man who rubs himself on others against their will. This is gross (and often illegal); don't do it.
Fucking
See Screwing, Anal sex, Men fucking.
Hotwife
A wife whose husband encourages her to have sex with others. The hotwife does not humiliate her husband, and he does not feel humiliated by her acts. See also Cuckold.
IR
Interracial sex; sex between partners of different races, usually black men and white women. (One of these days, I'll have to write a blog post about why that is.)
  • Diigo: My IR links
Jacking off
Male masturbation.
Jilling off
Female masturbation.
Lover
Technically, anyone who is a sex partner of another. Frequently used to mean the sex partner of a married person other than his or her spouse. In the cuckold world, the wife's lover is often called a "bull."
Male chastity device
A mechanical device that prevents a man from having an orgasm or even getting an erection. His femdom partner will normally take custody of the key.
Male prostitutes
Men who provide sexual services in exchange for money. Women as well as men avail themselves of these services.
Male strippers
See CFNM
Masturbatrix
See Ruined orgasm
Men fucking
Male-male anal intercourse. Men seem rougher with each other and so merit the term, I think.
MFF
A one-man-two-woman threesome. Usually there is sexual contact between the two women.
MFM
A two-men-one-woman threesome in which the men do not have sexual contact with each other. (Notice the "M"s don't touch each other.)
MILF
An older woman -- at least by porn standards -- who is still considered sexually desirable. (Origin: "Mother I'd like to fuck.")
Milking
See Prostate massage / Milking
MMF
A two-men-one-woman threesome in which the men have sexual contact with each other (i.e., the men are or act bisexual). (Notice the "M"s touch each other.)
MMMF, MMMMF, etc.
A woman with three or more men. Usually the woman is the center of attention (i.e., there's no homoerotic stuff), but there are too many "M"s and not enough "F"s to indicate that in the abbreviation.
Orgasm denial
When a man's partner -- usually a dominant woman -- denies him the right to have an orgasm. Note that he may still be allowed to release semen, but not to have a fully satisfying orgasm. See also Male chastity device, Prostate massage / milking, Ruined orgasm.
Outercourse
Non-penetratrive sexual practices in which the man does not get to put his penis in a vagina, anus, or mouth. It's kept out of those orifices. See also Vulva
Pegging
The act of a woman using a strap-on dildo to have anal intercourse with a man.
Penis
The most prominent male genital organ. It's a cute name for a cute organ, whether erect or flaccid. Alternate names sound too brutal to me. Combining term: penis-vulva rubbing
Prostate massage / milking
A man's lover fingers his prostate through his anus. If there is little or no penile stimulation, the result is that the man emits semen, but does not have an orgasm.
Pubic hair
Hair that grows around the genitalia of mature adults. I like to see women in porn who look like women.
Pussy
The female genitalia, including vagina, vulva, labia, and clitoris. The anatomical terms seem too clinical and specific most of the time. And I won't even entertain the c-word. Treat your pussy well and she'll treat you well.
Rimming
See Anilingus
Ruined orgasm
A man's lover provides penile stimulation -- if she is a dominant woman, she is sometimes called a masturbatrix -- but only up to a point. Just before he would experience a full orgasm, she lets go. He emits semen and feels some pleasure, but less than he would during a fully satisfying orgasm.
Screwing
Male-female vaginal intercourse. It seems like a more gentle, loving word than any of the alternatives. See also Anal sex, Men fucking.
Sex
The entire gamut of intimate human contact. It can involve genitalia, anuses, mouths, hands, and other organs. It is not limited to intercourse.
Sloppy seconds
A second man screws a woman immediately after another man has screwed her. Often refers to a cuckold husband taking his turn screwing his wife after her lover got to have her first.
Small breasts
A- or B-cup sized breasts. As a woman with a slim body type, I like to see actresses with small boobs get the cute guy sometimes. Some of my favorite small-breasted actresses went on to get boob jobs during their careers, but I especially admire India Summer for keeping her figure in more ways than one.
Strap-on sex
One partner uses a strap-on dildo to screw the other in ways she or he couldn't do with their natural equipment. It can be a woman screwing a man in the ass (this is known as Pegging), a woman screwing another woman, or a man screwing a woman, in order to double penetrate her with his penis and the dildo. (I've never heard of male-male strap-on sex, but maybe it happens.)
Transvestite
One who wears clothing traditionally worn by the other gender, most often a man wearing women's clothes. Syn.: Crossdresser
Tribadism
The act of one woman rubbing her genitalia on another woman's body, often her genitalia as well.
Vibrator
A buzzing toy used for sexual pleasure. It may or may not be penis-shaped. See also Dildo.
Vulva
The external parts of a woman's genitalia, mainly the labia and the clitoris. Combining term: Penis-vulva rubbing. See also Pussy.
Women who like to watch
A straight woman who enjoys viewing men getting it on. (I'm not proud of the tag I use for this on Diigo. My only excuse is that the site limits the total number of characters users can have in tags for a link.)
Zaftig
Pleasingly plump. Although I have a slim body type, some of my favorite MILFs have curvy breasts, bellies, and butts. (Origin: "juicy," Yiddish and German)
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Friday, August 26, 2011

Good News for Bisexual Men: You Exist After All!

This just in: the New York Times reports that scientists at Northwestern University have determined that bisexual men do, in fact, exist.

This is news because a previous "widely publicized" study determined that bisexual men were fooling themselves and/or their loved ones. According to the earlier study, bisexual men were mostly gay (or sometimes straight). Who did that study? Scientists at Northwestern. Where was it widely publicized? In the New York Times. (To be fair, the recent NYT story had the grace to link to the older one.)

I can just imagine the damage this must have caused.

MAN: Honey, I have something to tell you. I'm bisexual.
WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND: You mean you're gay??!
MAN: No, I'm bisexual.
WoG: You're gay! It says so in the New York Times.

Or conversely:

MAN: Honey, I have something to tell you. I'm bisexual.
MALE PARTNER: You mean you're straight??!
MAN: No, I'm bisexual.
MP: You're straight! It says so in the New York Times.

From the NYT:

“I’ve interviewed a lot of individuals about how invalidating it is when their own family members think they’re confused or going through a stage or in denial,” [Dr. Lisa Diamond] said.


The more recent study actually made an effort to find bisexual men. They used bisexual web sites and chose men with serious experience with both genders. Then, they monitored their genitals as they watched man-on-man and woman-on-woman videos. Bisexual men -- go figure! -- got turned on by both.

Despite her cautious praise of the new research, Dr. Diamond also noted that the kind of sexual arousal tested in the studies is only one element of sexual orientation and identity. And simply interpreting results about sexual arousal is complicated, because monitoring genital response to erotic images in a laboratory setting cannot replicate an actual human interaction, she added.

“Sexual arousal is a very complicated thing,” she said. “The real phenomenon in day-to-day life is extraordinarily messy and multifactorial.”
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Thursday, July 1, 2010

The last person out of the closet

CNN, of all places, has a lovely story about The last person out of the closet? The bisexual male. Much of the article concerns happily married (to a woman) Robert Winn, but the reactions he gets could apply to any bi guy:

He frequently battles the stereotypes of bisexuality: That bisexual men are promiscuous. That his relationships with men were just an adolescent phase. That his bisexuality is imaginary. That he's really a gay man trying to camouflage his orientation.
Read the whole article and share it with any bi men in your life.
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Friday, August 28, 2009

Peg a man and make him a better lover?

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Would men be better lovers if pegged once? - Women's Health Support Forums

Posted: 27 Aug 2009 11:33 PM PDT
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Sunday, August 16, 2009

Sexual freedom, big c*cks, rim jobs

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    In Rhode Island, battle over legal prostitution rages on - The Boston Globe

    Posted: 15 Aug 2009 11:43 PM PDT

    Indoor prostitution is legal in R.I.

    Gay marriage fight, `kiss-ins' smack Mormon image - Yahoo! News

    Posted: 15 Aug 2009 11:24 PM PDT

    I’m a Size Queen (Of Course) » Random Rim Jobs

    Posted: 15 Aug 2009 10:55 PM PDT

    Shazamsf writes about screwing "big boys," then this: "Rim jobs. I like converting straight guys to the glories of rim jobs. Mr. RI learned, thanks to me, that he really, really, quite a lot digs his asshole licked. I love a straight guy who isn't too uptight about his ass. Ass licking feels damn good. The zoned out look on a guy's face when he's getting his ass treated properly is truly beautiful."

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    Saturday, August 1, 2009

    Pubic hair II

    I was thinking more about pubic hair.

    Did you know there's a whole blog devoted to male pubic hair? (Nice pictures, too.)

    Naturally Wikipedia has all the hairy details.
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    Sunday, July 26, 2009

    How to Shave Your Groin (for men)



    I'm not one for shaving pubes. I think men and women should look like men and women, and the best way to do that is with hairy c*cks and p*ssies.

    However, if your man is into shaving his crotch, the attached video could prove useful. It's not too explicit -- almost SFW.

    Another use for this could be if you're into forced feminization. You could order your slaveboy to shave his crotch. Tell him he looks like a little girl, then give him a good pegging.

    It's not my thing; I'm more into egalitarian/loving pegging. But some of you might find it a turn-on.
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    Monday, July 20, 2009

    Anal education video review; essay on Playgirl

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    Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide To Anal Pleasure For Men - Adult Film Reviews

    Posted: 20 Jul 2009 12:37 AM PDT

    ” Playgirl: Naked No More at jamYe waXman. seX matters. - jamYe waXman. seX matters.

    Posted: 19 Jul 2009 01:21 AM PDT

    Another article on the end of the print edition of Playgirl.
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    Sunday, July 19, 2009

    Photographer Martin Ryter: Brian Buzzini "was proud of his cock"

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    Photographer Martin Ryter: Brian Buzzini "was proud of his cock"

    Posted: 18 Jul 2009 11:28 PM PDT

    "I have shot some outstanding American studs. One that stands out is Brian Buzzini who is a California native....

    "He was proud of his cock and insisted the magazine publish his erection as the centerfold. Not so special now, but at the time male models didn't do Playgirl and especially not with an erection."


    See Brian Buzzini's lovely erection shot.
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    Friday, July 17, 2009

    Best Playgirl man of the year evah

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    ultranow: best playgirl man of the year evah

    Posted: 16 Jul 2009 01:18 AM PDT

    Hard to argue with the choice of Steve Rally
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    Thursday, May 7, 2009

    Cosmopolitan looks at men's bodies from both sides now

    There I was in the supermarket minding my own business when this magazine headline caught my eye:



    His G Spot. Yup, he's got one too -- and it's aching to be touched. Go get it, girl!


    It was the cover of the June [2008] issue of Cosmopolitan. Could it be? Could a mainstream women's mag be talking about anal loving? I picked up the magazine and read this article.


    Women aren't the only ones with a powerful G-spot. A guy's prostate -- the walnut-size gland under his bladder -- is the ultimate magic button to push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through oral sex or intercourse, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus. "His prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body," says [Ian] Kerner, "so by applying pressure here you're indirectly rubbing his G-spot." When you sense he's close to orgasm, rhythmically press the area (one pulse every second) until he climaxes.


    So far, so good, but how about getting to his "G-spot" through a more direct route?


    A more intense form of stimulation is to place a finger in his anus. First, gauge his interest by circling his back door softly with your finger while in a missionary of side-by-side position. "If he doesn't tell you to stop and his erection doesn't flag, he's likely enjoying it," says Kerner.


    Now you're getting there, Cosmo. "If his erection doesn't flag"? What if it twitches and swells and grows? LOL.


    Next, ask him whether you can insert your finger. If he gives you the go ahead, dab on lube (make sure your nails are short), gently put your finger 2 inches inside his backstage entrance, and curl it toward the front of his body until you feel a round bulb of tissue -- that's his prostate. Lightly tap or swirl your fingertip around it. "Then gradually experiment with going faster and firmer," instructs Kerner. Check to make sure he likes what you're doing.


    I don't think that will be a problem.

    The article goes on to talk about a man's "C-spot," "8-spot," "W-spot," "F-spot," "X-spot," and "R-spot," and "O-spot."



    Ladies, happy hunting!


    Men, now you have some ammunition to get your S.O. to touch you *there*. You know: "I'll touch your G-spot if you'll touch mine." LOL.

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    Friday, May 1, 2009

    Penises, real and mechanical

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    RedTube - Girl has wonderful Orgasm on Sybian

    Posted: 30 Apr 2009 10:44 PM PDT

    Secrets of the Phallus: Why Is the Penis Shaped Like That?: Scientific American

    Posted: 30 Apr 2009 09:02 PM PDT

    "The researchers selected several sets of prosthetic genitals from erotic novelty stores, including a realistic latex vagina sold as a masturbation pal for lonely straight men and tied off at one end to prevent leakage, and three artificial phalluses."
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    Sunday, April 26, 2009

    Playgirl: A review of its last issue

    Sometimes, I will repost articles I have posted elsewhere for the convenience of my readers here. They will have the tag "Best of Vickie P."





    When I heard that the January-February 2009 Playgirl would be its last printed issue, I had to get a copy. I was never keen on the mag, though. Like most women, I prefer some kind of story with my sexually explicit material, so I tend to go for either erotic fiction or porn videos with a plot. Nevertheless, I always thought it was kinda cool that there was this magazine with pictures of nude men aimed at women -- the feminine answer to Playboy. So I wanted to see how the last issue of Playgirl compared with the ones I remembered giggling about (and lusting over) with my girlfriends.


    Men


    The issue displays lots of nude men, as you would expect. Everywhere you look, your gaze meets penises, from flaccid to fully erect. (This was not always the case. For much of Playgirl's history, erections were taboo, and for one forlorn year in the 1980s, the magazine was completely dickless.) There's a pictorial of a man and a woman, both nude and doing everything but actually having sex. However -- and this is a big defect -- the guys are just not as drop-dead gorgeous as I remember them being. Compare last coverboy Sean Patrick in the accompanying image, who appears nude in the magazine, with 1986 Man of the Year Brian Buzzini (turn off "Safe Search" to get the best view; yes, you can even find the famous centerfold of Brian Buzzini sporting a lovely erection). (If that doesn't work, you can always go to this gallery of Brian Buzzini pictures.)


    Articles


    After you get done gazing at the nude men, what else is there to see? There's a sweet farewell letter from editor Nicole Caldwell to the "fierce Playgirl posse, sharing a common commitment to unearth the world's most beautiful men, and dishing about issues women like us deal with every day." Women write about their experiences having sex in Second Life and having sex with strap-ons. There are more serious articles about genital mutilation and prostitution in Amsterdam. There's some all-too-short erotic fiction. There are some travel articles and movie reviews. Again, it's all a pale reflection of the old Playgirl.


    Ambience


    The magazine has always been marketed as "entertainment for women." In recent years, editors have admitted that at least 50% of the Playgirl's readers were men. The advertising seems to have caught up with that. On just the first few pages, there are ads for toys in which to insert one's dick, creams to enlarge one's dick, and just plain lots of dicks ("the world's largest gay porn portal"). It doesn't seem like the haven for female sexuality it once was.


    The Future of Playgirl


    Playgirl lives on as a Web site and producer of erotic videos aimed at women. It's not the same as having a nudie magazine out there, just for us. The magazine was never as widely distributed as its male counterpart, so you may have to look around to find that last issue, and in any case, it will soon disappear from newsstands altogether. (It's already selling on some collectors' sites for $25.)


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