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What's up your b*tt? Some serious talk about your prostate

I saw this bumper sticker today. I understand its purpose is to raise awareness of colorectal cancer, something about which we should all be concerned. However, it's also a reminder that men of a certain age -- and you know who you are -- should get their prostates checked regularly. I gather that having a doctor put his finger in your backdoor will probably not be as much fun as having someone special shove something up there. However, your loved ones will thank you.

Do Europeans Have More Fun? part 2: Le plaisir du massage de la prostate

Introduction: In a video I saw recently, a French character claims that Europeans practice bisexual (MMF) threesomes and other adventurous sex acts "all the time." Is this true? I don't know if I can answer that question, but we can have fun examining it.

I've discovered a very nice blog, Le plaisir du massage de la prostate (the pleasure of prostate massage). A Frenchwoman named Marianne posts videos of women pegging (or otherwise prostate-stimulating) men. Yes, it's in French, but you can understand the language of love ... and buttplay.

Here's a video I found on her blog (tip of the dildo). A sex educator named Jaiya talks about "anal play for men." It differs from many of the videos on the blog in that it's tamer than most of them (nothing explicitly shown), it's more educational, and it's in English.



Earlier posts in this series:

Do Europeans Have More Fun? part 1: French Bisexual (MMF) Threesome

Prostate massage and handjob

Delicious/vickiep

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Prostate massage and handjob Posted: 28 Jan 2011 05:00 PM PST Video: First time anal play for him!

Psychedelic, man!

A groovy, yet anatomically correct drawing of prostate stimulation.

Mostly pegging, mostly from Random Rim Jobs

Delicious/vickiep

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Teach Me How to Fuck Your Guy’s Ass » Random Rim Jobs Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:57 AM PDT Shazamsf on pegging

An Experience » Random Rim Jobs Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:56 AM PDT Guest post by a man with his strap-on experience

Random Rim Jobs Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:53 AM PDT This is a very sexy blog recounting the experiences of a bi woman

How to Find and Stimulate the Prostate – Exploring Anal Play for Men Posted: 14 Aug 2009 12:50 AM PDT

Cosmopolitan looks at men's bodies from both sides now

There I was in the supermarket minding my own business when this magazine headline caught my eye:

His G Spot. Yup, he's got one too -- and it's aching to be touched. Go get it, girl!

It was the cover of the June [2008] issue of Cosmopolitan. Could it be? Could a mainstream women's mag be talking about anal loving? I picked up the magazine and read this article.

Women aren't the only ones with a powerful G-spot. A guy's prostate -- the walnut-size gland under his bladder -- is the ultimate magic button to push if you want to blow his mind in bed. To tantalize it, partway through oral sex or intercourse, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus. "His prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body," says [Ian] Kerner, "so by applying pressure here you're indirectly rubbing his G-spot." When you sense he's close to orgasm, rhythmically press the area (one pulse every second) until he climaxes.

So far, so good, but how about getting to his "G-spot" through a more direct route?

A more intense form of stimulation is to place a finger in his anus. First, gauge his interest by circling his back door softly with your finger while in a missionary of side-by-side position. "If he doesn't tell you to stop and his erection doesn't flag, he's likely enjoying it," says Kerner.

Now you're getting there, Cosmo. "If his erection doesn't flag"? What if it twitches and swells and grows? LOL.

Next, ask him whether you can insert your finger. If he gives you the go ahead, dab on lube (make sure your nails are short), gently put your finger 2 inches inside his backstage entrance, and curl it toward the front of his body until you feel a round bulb of tissue -- that's his prostate. Lightly tap or swirl your fingertip around it. "Then gradually experiment with going faster and firmer," instructs Kerner. Check to make sure he likes what you're doing.

I don't think that will be a problem.

The article goes on to talk about a man's "C-spot," "8-spot," "W-spot," "F-spot," "X-spot," and "R-spot," and "O-spot."

Ladies, happy hunting!

Men, now you have some ammunition to get your S.O. to touch you *there*. You know: "I'll touch your G-spot if you'll touch mine." LOL.