Leslie Jones on women's sexual satisfaction (and penis size)

Leslie Jones on women's sexual satisfaction (and penis size)

I hate foreplay

I hate "foreplay."

Don't get me wrong: I love the acts usually comprehended by that term. When I'm in bed with The Boyfriend, I am not overly hasty to get to the screwing part of the program.

I hate the word "foreplay." I hate the implication that all of those delicious acts are just a prelude to — and inferior to — intercourse, that "sex" means intercourse and everything else is not sex.

Here is my definition of "sex":

The entire gamut of intimate and loving human contact. It can involve genitalia, anuses, mouths, hands, and other organs. It is not limited to intercourse.

Some things to note about this:

• It has to be "intimate and loving." A gynecological exam is not sex. Rape is not sex.
• The genitalia or anus involved could be your own. Masturbation is sex.

All of the following are sex:

• A hand on a breast
• A hand on male genitalia
• A finger (or hand) in an anus
• A hand on or in female genitalia
• A mouth on a breast
• A mouth on male genitalia
• A mouth on an anus
• A mouth on or in female genitalia
• A sextoy on a breast
• A sextoy on male genitalia
• A sextoy on or in an anus
• A sextoy on or in female genitalia
• A breast on a breast
• A breast on female genitalia
• A breast on male genitalia
• Female genitalia on female genitalia
• Male genitalia on male genitalia
• Male genitalia on female genitalia
• A penis on or in an anus
• A penis on or in a vagina

Notes:

• Male genitalia includes penis, balls — the whole package.
• Female genitalia includes vagina, vulva, labia, clitoris — the whole package.

Vickie's Vocabulary: Sex

From time to time, I will revise terms in Vickie's Vocabulary. The part in italics is new.

Sex

The entire gamut of intimate and loving human contact. It can involve genitalia, anuses, mouths, hands, and other organs. It is not limited to intercourse.

Vickie's Vocabulary: Adorable, beautiful, cute, gorgeous, hot, lovely, pretty, sweet

From time to time, I will revise terms in Vickie's Vocabulary. The part in italics is new.

Adorable, beautiful, cute, gorgeous, hot, lovely, pretty, sweet

These words, which used to be applied almost exclusively to women, are now frequently used by women to apply to men's faces, bodies, and body parts. I think it reflects a changing power dynamic. Women look at, admire, and lust after male beauty and are not ashamed to admit it.

• XVideos: My Beautiful young men gallery
• Diigo: My Beautiful men links
• Diigo: My Women praising men's bodies links

A change in The Boyfriend?

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Vickie's Vocabulary: Do him / do her

From time to time, I will add new terms to Vickie's Vocabulary.

Do him / Do her, to

To screw someone. Often expressed as a desire to get into someone's pants. Example: As Sarah and Vickie eyed the studly young construction worker, Vickie said, "I'd do him."

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